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A Dose of the Good Stuff
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A Dose of the Good Stuff I'm jinxing myself by writing this post-- I just KNOW it. Fuck. Okay, here goes nothing... Remember Doc? From a few weeks ago? The one with the smoking hot profile photo? After our first meeting, I was kinda milquetoast about the whole thing. The meeting was fine- he matched his photos and was just as engaging in person as he was via text, but something just wasn't clicking. We lost touch for about three weeks until he approached me mid-April after he returned from a visit to Canada. I had a class in Illinois that upcoming weekend and he invited me to come over and hang out for a bit...and he really is a nice guy, so I thought, "Why not? No reason we can't be friends." Well, let's just say that the clicking sound was LOUD AND CLEAR that evening (wink, wink). Following that meeting, things were jumbled and awkward this past week. I felt a disconnect- as though he was being evasive even though HE was the one initiating conventions with ME. I started seeing signs of 'THAT GUY-itis'. It was as if he was purposely avoiding paying me the simplest compliment. This did not bode well for us, and I told him as much. I basically said that I didn't think this was going to work because I needed a man who could EXPRESS himself. I still wanted to be friends, though. I really do enjoy his company... Anyhoo... I saw him again yesterday, after yet another baking class. We drove to a playground and sat on the swings and talked. We held hands and talked some more. We kissed on the bleachers like<b> teenagers </font></b>and got to the crux of the matter. And I *think* we got it figured out. I think this might work. Texting is good for a lot of things, but the inflection in someone's voice is a crucial piece of the puzzle. That's the bottom line. And I'm glad that I gave him a chance to explain things in person...that we both had a chance to see a bigger picture full of hand gestures, facial expressions and body language. I think I forget how vital those means of communication can be... And his kisses? Worth a thousand words  .Wish me luck, Guys and Dolls. For now, it seems the Doctor is In. When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load... |
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GOOD
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Hiya, G.  Oh, I'm sure you'll make it work out now. Have fun, and do everything I'd do ...  Si Vis Pacem Para Bellum Audentes Fortuna Iuvat Politicians. Lampposts. Assembly Required.
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Yay!!! Good luck!  "For a woman there is nothing more erotic than being understood." ~ Molly Haskell Read about Me Being Naughty o-o
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Awwwwwwwwwww!!! i want to say "YAY! You got butterflies in your tummy!" But really it's like "FUCK YEAH!!! You gots buttahflies in yo crotch!!!" *the above statement is a compliment xo I have no effing clue where I'm going and what I'm saying Vixn_Vella Its not me....It's you. And no...we cannot be friends
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I agree...a great kiss can certainly speak volumes...Good Luck. PLEASE COME AND CHECK OUT MY BLOG AND IF YOU ENJOYED IT LEAVE ME A COMMENT. KEEP IT SEXY!!
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Best wishes with the doc. I hope he's the tonic you need.
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Congrats G... Hope it works for you and wishing the best! 
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Nope nope. Can't call him Doc. I will not countenance it! Good luck, but find a better nickname! Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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You are so right about needing the in-person inflections rather than just relying on texting. Good luck!   
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Wishing you the best of luck, you deserve it. And maybe you can take part in the 12th word of you blog if it works out, heaven knows you deserve that too. Take it easy, guns are cold. 
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Yay! Good luck!
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Here's hoping I am the only Me you get.
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