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Blogs > spiderj72 > Going to Hell for sure

Baggage  

spiderj72 51M
5951 posts
8/9/2011 5:10 am
Baggage

Your Uncle spider feels like he should be writing something semi serious right now. So here goes. We all (men and women both) come in to our relationships or encounters with baggage. And i guess the easiest term to substitute for baggage would be a past, a history if you will.

This history can be visible, from<b> scars </font></b>from surgeries, tattoos, wedding rings to the very real and visible from the previous relationship. The history can also be invisible but still there like failed relationships due to alcoholism and drugs, stds, psychological damage, to inevitable broken heart syndrome and finally things like fetishes and preferences.

It is how we as partners and potential partners deal with this baggage or history that affects how we move forward. I am sure that we all have at one point or time said to ourselves that "this kiss/fuck/cock/pussy doesn't feel like my husbands/wifes/teachers/priests" It is how you deal with that moment.

The old phrase about another way to skin a cat comes to mind. Let me try to rework it a little bit. There are a million ways to eat a pussy. Not all are going to be the same and part of being a good partner/lover is to bring your baggage or history and use the good parts of it to delight your partners. If your girl had never had anyone eat her and you do and she loves it then you are doing things right. If you only made love missionary style and insisted that it was the only way that you were going to make love for the rest of your days because that is how you learned then you are using the history wrong.

I am curious as always to know what you think about my ideas. I may have it right or i may have it wrong. I really think we need to drop the term baggage and start using the less pejorative history.

spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
8/9/2011 10:03 pm
    Quoting  :
thanks justforfun. i had been kicking it around in my head and was hoping that it came out okay. thanks for confirming for me


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
8/9/2011 10:04 pm
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the fact that jerry springer hosts a game show called baggage is bad enough. our history is what makes us who we are. without it we are just another cookie cutter humanoid. kinda depressing when you look at it that way.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
8/10/2011 10:12 am

 oh my friggin gawd...i had epiphany after reading your post today..you are genius...you are brilliant... keep it up...you will get it...


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
8/10/2011 5:06 pm
    Quoting japaneseass:
    oh my friggin gawd...i had epiphany after reading your post today..you are genius...you are brilliant... keep it up...you will get it...
i am glad i could help. i think


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