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Blogs > spiderj72 > Going to Hell for sure

Wrecked  

spiderj72 51M
5952 posts
9/15/2011 5:06 am
Wrecked

There was a joke when i was a young spider that went like this. What do you call a girl with braces? A black and decker pecker wrecker. It is lame and really is all about the ryhming but it is there stuck in the spider brain with a lot of other useless shit.

It leads me to the notion of wrecked. I have been wrecked. And not using the term for drunk that we used to use when i was younger but wore out. In my university days i dated (ha) an older friend of my sister who was a borderline nymphomaniac.

I can hear some of you snickering now, what is wrong with that, a nympho is a guys<b> wet dream. </font></b>Yes and no. Yes i got to have a lot of sex in a very short period of time. No because it is physically draining as well as the emotional damage as well.

She wore me out a couple of times and I wore her out once. A relatively fair trade i think. The other thing is that it started a little bit of a pattern i think. I call it too much of a good thing. You have so much of a good thing in this one instance that you come to neglect it. Imagine taking away drinking water for an afternoon and see how far we get as a species.

I do remember lying there in a sweaty, sticky mess and holding her loosely to me. Thinking to myself how the hell could it get any better. Now that i am older and supposedly wiser i wonder if it ever did get better or did i peak then. Either way i am wrecked. Maybe damamged goods is a better way to describe me.

rm_nrcab 42M
5 posts
9/15/2011 5:35 am

 I know this has happened to me, maybe not as severe but I have had a few flings that have lasted 2-4 months with sex on the daily and as many as 6 times a day. After awhile sex becomes joyless, like shooting your dick with novocaine and then trying to have sex.

For me it would happen in cycles. I'd have a fling, lose interest, relax a few months, get back in the market, have fling, repeat. Now I try to keep sex a regular part of my relationship, but at a much slower pace, 1-3 times a week. I find that it makes the sex much more sustainable and enjoyable.


Trya67 56M

9/15/2011 8:16 am

 Well i think you can recover from that sort of wrecked . Just keep plying your wears and i bet a few times you can top those times . It's all in your mind and the other partners body and talents of course .lol So head up and little head going forward and you never know . You might over come this being wrecked !!!


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
9/15/2011 4:35 pm
    Quoting rm_nrcab:
    I know this has happened to me, maybe not as severe but I have had a few flings that have lasted 2-4 months with sex on the daily and as many as 6 times a day. After awhile sex becomes joyless, like shooting your dick with novocaine and then trying to have sex.

    For me it would happen in cycles. I'd have a fling, lose interest, relax a few months, get back in the market, have fling, repeat. Now I try to keep sex a regular part of my relationship, but at a much slower pace, 1-3 times a week. I find that it makes the sex much more sustainable and enjoyable.
i think that so much of it had to do with being newly devirginized and ready to rock and roll. i havent had a partner with that same level of drive in a long time. the 1-3 times sounds like a nice achievable number.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
9/15/2011 4:36 pm
    Quoting Trya67:
    Well i think you can recover from that sort of wrecked . Just keep plying your wears and i bet a few times you can top those times . It's all in your mind and the other partners body and talents of course .lol So head up and little head going forward and you never know . You might over come this being wrecked !!!
i did recover somewhat. i am a big one for going forward and not looking back.


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