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Blogs > spiderj72 > Going to Hell for sure

White Knight syndrome  

spiderj72 51M
5952 posts
11/9/2011 7:40 am
White Knight syndrome

Hello again gentle readers. Uncle spider is here once again to educate us all on a very real thing that happens and that is the white knight syndrome. Please note this is not a crack at race it is more a crack at the old movies where heroes wear white.

White knight syndrome is real and it creeps into some of the things we do. It is very real if you happen to be a good guy. What that means is that you think with you head and heart before your cock. You are interested in ther person and not just the pussy. I will give you for instances on the syndrome and how it manifests itself.

You have been flirting back and forth with said lady, you have actually gotten to the point of<b> swapping </font></b>bodily fluids and have seen each other naked. She then proceeds to have a week of absolute hell, her world is falling apart and work sucks and she stubbed her toe. You go to her and you hold her and reassure her that life will be better and get better and you leave after she has laughed and is smiling again.

You want to rescue the fair damsel from her problems. It is only natural in a sense but it can become rather warped too. I know of a guy who found out the girl he was interested in had not had oral in over five years. He spent the first whole night making sure that she remembered how good oral could be. Knight of the first order he was.

White knights are the guys who want to do stuff for the ladies without the promise of conjugal rewards. They are genuinely nice guys and they run the risk of getting used and abused. I fully admit that i fall into this category. I remember hearing a female co worker bitch about lack of guys. Regardless of the marital status i wanted to date her just so she could see there are decent guys out there. How is that for pretzel logic.

So what does this all mean. It means a couple of things. White knights are rare and wonderful to find ladies. Keep that in mind. Dont abuse them or use them. When the stop in, pet his , give it an apple maybe. Men, there is nothing wrong with being a white knight, there is something wrong tilting at windmills though. Try to avoid that if you can. I gotta go now, i am delivering ginger ale to a sick friend. Gotta make sure the is saddled properly.

spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
11/9/2011 10:01 am
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i try, i try. now to avoid getting abused over it.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
11/9/2011 10:02 am
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yeah we are a pretty cool bunch. the little push and support bit is part of our code i think.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
11/9/2011 11:41 am

 a white knight does exist...but i think, finding an unicorn is lot easier... maybe i am looking for it in the wrong place...


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
11/9/2011 3:55 pm
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and that is why we love you so much


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
11/9/2011 3:56 pm
    Quoting japaneseass:
    a white knight does exist...but i think, finding an unicorn is lot easier... maybe i am looking for it in the wrong place...
how many times do i have to tell you a guy with a dildo on his head is not a unicorn. silly girl


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
11/9/2011 3:57 pm
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nice to see you back hope the transition went well. i will be sure to look for that tlc when i need it.


rm_impish_pixie 61F
6862 posts
11/9/2011 4:16 pm

 I really like your pretzel logic. White Knights are wonderful to find, but sometimes the dragon ain't so bad either. (You'd have to read my post on Dragons to understand that one)
I make mistakes, I am out of control & at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn


KCey2 64F

11/9/2011 5:27 pm

 I hope and pray that I NEVER take advantage of a white knight if I ever meet one!! I hope and pray that I will recognize one when I see one!! and I hope and pray I tell him everyday just how much he means to me!! honestly-- I have dreamed of such a man!


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
11/9/2011 7:08 pm
    Quoting rm_impish_pixie:
    I really like your pretzel logic. White Knights are wonderful to find, but sometimes the dragon ain't so bad either. (You'd have to read my post on Dragons to understand that one)
i may just have to do that. time to do some digging


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
11/9/2011 7:09 pm
    Quoting KCey2:
    I hope and pray that I NEVER take advantage of a white knight if I ever meet one!! I hope and pray that I will recognize one when I see one!! and I hope and pray I tell him everyday just how much he means to me!! honestly-- I have dreamed of such a man!
they are few and far between these days.


Whoopipies 42M/39F

11/10/2011 11:57 am

 how do you know if hes really one though? theres a lot of unicorns, dragons, whatever, running around pretending to be white knights...


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
11/10/2011 2:17 pm
    Quoting Whoopipies:
    how do you know if hes really one though? theres a lot of unicorns, dragons, whatever, running around pretending to be white knights...
i would think that you check his motives. if he is looking to get laid immediately for what he is doing, he is a fake. if he does it just to do it probably real. white knights will take a month or two to see your naked bits. most others wont wait that long.


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