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Lets hear from the fat guy about body shaming.  

spiderj72 51M
5949 posts
3/10/2016 6:01 am
Lets hear from the fat guy about body shaming.


Yeah what a great idea. So this idea has been kicking around in my head for a while and some crap in the media just took place and I will use it as a spring board. What I mean is Kim Kardashit just posted nude photos of herself on facefuck or instagranny or tweeture or whatever social media thing is cool these days.

The world had a minor conniption with some celebs saying essentially "enough with the naked beaver". Now for those of you who know me you will understand that I enjoy nude photos. Be they celebretard or not. Naked women folk do something for me. What I don't enjoy is the seeming bitter debate that happens around these things.

The other thing I am watching with a little bit of interest is the Chump Hogan versus Gawkme legal battle in Florida. The release of the chumpster fucking his best friends wife on video was the end of his career really. Not because of the little chumpster being revealed but instead about the racist shit he said while banging his best friends wife (there are so many potential blogs on this stuff).

Now this whole body shaming thing takes place all the time. Maybe not played out in the media large like we are seeing but instead on a much smaller and more insidious level by the media all the time. From the top ten most beautiful lists (if you aren't there you are ugly) to simple putdowns on hair style, or body shape or size. When was the last time you had someone describe you accurately but in terms that were not really flattering. Happens to me all the time.

However I do find that on this site the shaming thing I kinda forgot about. My good friend [Ethicalslutmissy] posted a comparison of herself and the model from the catalogue wearing the same lingerie. Brave, insanely brave because missy is not the model. Find her blog post and she will tell you exactly where she differs from the model. But you know what bless her for posing.

Everyone out there in this world has someone who digs their body. I think we all forget that when blasted with media perfection. I have seen those pictures out there ladies. I have seen the ones with lighting that isn't great and poses that are awkward and smiles that seem plastered on instead of genuine. I have seen the bad makeup, the poor skin, the misshapen breasts and the saggy<b> butts. </font></b>I want to tell you all that there is nothing to be ashamed of in these things. Someone finds you attractive. Take it from the guy who is just a hand.

JJLooken 56M/46F
366 posts
3/10/2016 6:31 am

We have nothing to brag about or pose about. We are just every day people who are trying to live productive life's that don't bother anyone. But of course we get looks and the odd back hand comments about our size. Not much can really be done about it other then Don't associate with those people. We are on this site looking for like minded people that enjoy our body shapes and sizes. And in the end we will find these people people we weed thru the Assholes and Posers and even Judges of others. That's Life and life is Great and up and down and all around at times. We just chose to include positive people in our life's.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/10/2016 9:52 am

    Quoting dayhiker2:
    Well said, but I will not be searching out Kardashit. Not going to feed their ego or pocket.
it hit one of the websites that I use for snarky news comments. yeah staying out of keeping the untalented earning.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/10/2016 9:59 am

    Quoting JJLooken:
    We have nothing to brag about or pose about. We are just every day people who are trying to live productive life's that don't bother anyone. But of course we get looks and the odd back hand comments about our size. Not much can really be done about it other then Don't associate with those people. We are on this site looking for like minded people that enjoy our body shapes and sizes. And in the end we will find these people people we weed thru the Assholes and Posers and even Judges of others. That's Life and life is Great and up and down and all around at times. We just chose to include positive people in our life's.
Thank you. I appreciate someone with the common sense to say it like it is. The best advice you can give is if it isn't for you then don't associate with it. If you don't like what you see on tv change the channel. No one is holding you hostage. Great attitude, I commend you both.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/10/2016 8:16 pm

    Quoting Smile_a_Minute:
    Awesome blog. And yeah, that post by Missy was amazing.
thanks. she does do a good job.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
3/12/2016 3:06 pm

    Quoting  :

yes I do know that about you. its a big reason behind the friendship.


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