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Blogs > spiderj72 > Going to Hell for sure

Fuck this  

spiderj72 51M
5951 posts
6/23/2016 9:15 am
Fuck this

So I have decided. It took me a while and lo and behold a sign from the elder gods (more this later) but I have decided to go celibate for awhile. Maybe it is because I have had my heart broke, maybe it is because I need to focus on the wreck that is my life but I cant be bothered with wooing the opposite sex right now.

There are the cynicals out there who are thinking that I am relyng on the old notion that if I am not chasing the women then they will all flock to me. Nope. Just couldn't be bothered right now. I will spend the time trying to turn into a better man and possibly licking my wounds over a whole lifetime of messed up relationships.

The sign that I talked about earlier was a co worker showing me his fish dates. For those of you who are wondering about that it is the old bunch of fish dating site. I had a moment of weakness about two months ago where I down loaded the app for my phone. I didn't open a profile but just had it sitting there on my phone, shit I never opened the damn thing up at all. To watch his face and have him explain to me how he was dating and who he was dating and watch the semi excitement in his face was enough to put me off it all. Thank the elders that I ditched the app about a month earlier.

So what am I gonna do you ask. Well if the worlds sexiest woman was to fall at the front door begging me to ring their bell I would. I am a weak man, no one can hold out forever. I will probably jack my dick like here is no tomorrow. But I am really just gonna take a break from wondering when and where my next companion is gonna come from. Instead I will reflect and spend some time with me. Who knows, maybe I will come to some sort of breakthrough. My fingers are crossed at least.

spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/23/2016 6:30 pm
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I wish it was a regroup. and thank you for the kind wishes.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/23/2016 6:32 pm
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I think your tale is pretty common for a unicorn. I do consider you a unicorn after following you for a while now. seem to have a good head on your shoulders, decent job and a more than decent libido and kink side. too bad you aren't having any luck. I will watch your adventures with my fingers crossed.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/23/2016 6:33 pm
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damn. I was hoping for nametags and a motto of some sort. If walmart has a cheer they do in the morning than so should we. And you are busy getting same ladies falling all over you.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
6/24/2016 10:19 am

 I hear you loud and clear!! It is worth doing, believe me
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spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/24/2016 7:29 pm
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men do not only pay compliments in order to have sex. sometimes we are just surprised by you all. a nice dress, or hair style or perfume even.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/24/2016 7:31 pm
    Quoting pocogato12:
    I hear you loud and clear!! It is worth doing, believe me
interesting that none of the male population have jumped in on this notion. leads me to believe there is a gender split on this one.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/25/2016 7:17 pm
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I always hate it more when someone cant take a compliment. and I include myself in those numbers.


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