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Blogs > spiderj72 > Going to Hell for sure

Is sexiness fat soluble?  

spiderj72 51M
5951 posts
9/21/2016 7:06 am
Is sexiness fat soluble?

WTF? I know that is what you are thinking just from the title. Let me get a round to where my thoughts are on this.

It has been my experience and I stress this experience only no hard data that the skinnier the woman was the less satisfactory the sexual encounter was. Now my selection of the skinny is limited to about two of twenty partners so only a sample of 10 percent. I will say that neither had a sex drive worth talking about and when they could be bothered with sex they simply orgasmed and then lay there like a dead fish waiting for me to finish.

Now on the other end of the spectrum I have been with some women who both myself and others would characterize as being on the heavy side of the spectrum. These ladies were nigh on nymphos. Whether it was an innate desire for sex or a making up for lost sex they were women who wore me out in a very enjoyable way.

Now the rest of my own personal history fall into the category of your typical woman. They may be a few pounds from where they want to be. In my case almost all of them were fighting against an number of pounds that seemed to belong only in their imagination and not on their bodies. All of these women were fantastic partners and seemed to have appetites that matched mine quite well. They had bodies that I enjoyed bouncing off of and appreciated being bounced as well.

So what the hell does this mean. I married one of these women who thought they were horribly overweight. What did she have was hips and breast and ass. However she was determined and managed to trim 20 to 30 pounds off her and what did that do? It made her bony and seemed to kill her sex drive. We went from a couple times a week to once every couple of months.

My sassy answer is that sexiness is fat soluble. Now I acknowledge this a touchy subject. Weight is never a cool thing to talk about and I should know as an acknowledged fat fuck. Understand that this is my experience I am talking about. It would be the same if all of the blowjobs I got were shit and I wrote about how shitty blowjobs were.

There is a real split in the world where guys seems to want the skinny bitch with the giant tits and ass. This is a unicorn. A media made unicorn.

spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
9/21/2016 7:37 pm
    Quoting  :
you are totally going into my skinny =not sexy category. hope you don't mind.


rachel0718 58F
20470 posts
9/27/2016 4:57 pm

 Well, I do feel more confident in my sexuality the curvier I have gotten. I have been that skinny railed girl and had a lot of sex but didn't appreciate it like I do now. I love my curves, my boobs and ass and I know my lovers do too. I just think there's something about the intimacy about sharing each others bodies and exploring what feels good. I was over weight as well and didn't feel sexy at all. I am just about where I want to be. I love feeling horny and having great sex!

Rachel Mae


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
9/28/2016 8:26 am
    Quoting Eros_Space:
    Interesting topic. I've written about this myself, with the theory that perhaps larger women have more surface area with more nerve endings, and therefore may enjoy sex more. For whatever reason, it has been my observation that big gals are definitely hornier.

    I also had a friend who practiced a formula. If he saw three women together in a night club, he wouldn't take the heaviest or lightest one. He would focus all of his attention on seducing the gal in the middle? Why? He figured because she was a little heavier than her one friend, she would probably try harder to please her man in bed. Conversely, she would probably have a little more confidence than the heaviest one. Interesting reasoning, but by no means scientific.
your friend may be right. I am only speaking from my own observations.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
9/28/2016 8:28 am
    Quoting rachel0718:
    Well, I do feel more confident in my sexuality the curvier I have gotten. I have been that skinny railed girl and had a lot of sex but didn't appreciate it like I do now. I love my curves, my boobs and ass and I know my lovers do too. I just think there's something about the intimacy about sharing each others bodies and exploring what feels good. I was over weight as well and didn't feel sexy at all. I am just about where I want to be. I love feeling horny and having great sex!
congrats on being where you are happy and where you want to be. this all came about because of a stray series of thoughts that went through my head. interesting to know that it bares out in real life.


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