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read before mailing me on aff  

ourladyofsighs 38F
31 posts
5/31/2013 11:26 pm
read before mailing me on aff


a while ago, af f changed the way their mail/messaging system works. the whole layout changed and all, but the main issue is that the mail now shows all kinds of messages. if i look in my mail, it says i've got tons of new messages, and they will be my outgoing "icebreaker" message. and more messages will be automated replies to my icebreaker. and so, my mail is seriously overloaded with junk.

and the other big change is that it now only shows 10 (or however many) messages at a time, and you have to load the next 10, next 10 and so on. and each load is really slow.

so, right now it's showing that i have 606 new messages. and there's really no way i'm loading 10 at a time to get to the end of 606 just to dig through mostly automatic non-messages to find the real ones, and i've pretty much given up on even looking at it.

which means i'm probably not going to see your new message. sometimes now i use the live chat, so you can message me on there if i'm on. but otherwise, idk. consider the mail system officially broken, i guess.

if anyone knows a way to "fix" it, reply here. but i've looked through all the settings and i don't think there's anything we can do until FriendFinder-x changes their system again (which they seem to do pretty regularly anyway).


Lusting4U6944 79M
16 posts
5/31/2013 11:49 pm

FriendFinder-x is not inclined to be 'User Friendly'. Guess they don't really have to. We are at their mercy.


2ndChancesAre 49M
1 post
8/15/2013 3:57 am

It was fun voting "I Disagree" with the other 3 comments! lol. That's all I have to say! Hahaha


FunNSingleGuy4u 60M
7 posts
12/23/2013 6:07 am

The best way to get to know someone on this site seems to be on the IM because you can chat to get to know the person right away. I know a few girls on this site that all say the same thing, they get hundreds of emails every day and can't get to all of them. Good luck to you in finding what you are looking for.


On4fun2 64M

2/16/2014 5:15 am

The email glitch has been fixed but it really annoyed me too. They keep changing the program and website. There are all sorts of other little problems too. You can call them, I do. But it doesn't make any difference. They are going to update the site and mess up the code and resolve it after a while. Whatever..., don't sweat it.


SWIDGIN 58M
1 post
5/16/2014 3:57 pm

Hi! I sent you a message and I'd love for you to try and weed through the detritus and check it out. I think I understand what you are looking for and that it would be worth the time spent for us to chat and get to know each other.

xoxox

John


wireguy 47M
1 post
8/24/2014 1:43 pm

I agree, the user interface of this site is terrible. I would say it's driven by either marketing or IT, rather than someone that actually has an idea of what the users need. That said, I send you an email...so dig through and find it if you'd like to know what I've written you.


njguy00000 66M  
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9/23/2014 11:57 pm



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9/24/2014 2:54 am
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Hi,

Well, in lieu of the broken or on purpose overloaded mailing system, I just wanna say that I thought your profile was "awesome", love it!!!

Vince


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Lotsa69s 55M  
160 posts
9/27/2014 9:08 am

Black text, black background Interesting! Are you still on IM here and there, or is it worth a shot to send an email saying HI?


jackofheart21 44M
1 post
4/27/2016 7:26 pm

Hi you just emailed me on Alt And I am attempting to email you here. So I figure leaving a comment here letting you know this will help you find my email. Jackofheart some reason my last comment was black on black so I copied it in red


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