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Curiousity always gets the cat  

sweetsurrender9 50F
36 posts
6/12/2011 8:29 am
Curiousity always gets the cat


Have a question for both women and men. How many of you out there joined this site for strictly FUN or SEX but unwillingly found yourself developing feelings for someone? Reason I ask is that I have a male friend who I convinced to join the site because all he was looking for was no strings attached fun and he ended up falling for a woman hundreds of miles away. Was just curious as to if this sort of thing tends to happen on here alot and whether it happens more for women than for the men.

OttawaMan43sum 53M
2220 posts
6/12/2011 9:54 am

I didn't join the site for pure fun but to find a FWB and fulfill a FMF fantasy.

With FWB situations, there should always be some feelings but I've found women are more likely to fall in love.


sweetsurrender9 50F
12 posts
6/12/2011 1:01 pm

    Quoting  :

Love your quote, rings true for myself as well. Ty for your input


sweetsurrender9 50F
12 posts
6/12/2011 1:03 pm

    Quoting OttawaMan43sum:
    I didn't join the site for pure fun but to find a FWB and fulfill a FMF fantasy.

    With FWB situations, there should always be some feelings but I've found women are more likely to fall in love.
FWB and fantasies do somewhat fall under the Fun and Sex category and yes I agree with the FWB scenario a certain level of feelings or caring should be present. As for it being the women who tend to fall inlove, I agree with that to a certain level as well but in my friend's case its the other way around. Thanks for your input


natureman76 47M

6/12/2011 5:56 pm

I haven't been on this site for very long. Met a girl who fell for me. It was very uncomfortable for me because I didnt feel the same way and I had to tell her. I was nice about it, but it made me feel bad.


cdnvoyager 53M

6/17/2011 2:03 pm

When people are involved, the result is always unpredictable - so yes, I could see that happening.
I feel I am at stage in my life where I don't expect that - just looking for some fun; however, stranger things have happened.


1delightfulm69 69M

6/18/2011 9:24 am

True enough....things happen when you least expect it!! I joined for the FWB possibilites. Have met a couple ladies from here, but nothing ongoing as of yet.


inneed7155 52M

6/22/2011 9:31 am

When people connect on an intimate level...they are bound to stir some emotions.


sweetsurrender9 50F
12 posts
6/22/2011 4:24 pm

[SIZE 3]Inneed although I agree with your comment, I also feel that it works the other way around. Connecting on an emotional level makes for great intimacy. I know quite a few people who are better lovers if they have a connection before the sex comes into the picture (according to them anyways).


pusspush 52M

7/2/2011 5:13 am

Sweets, agreed, and especially for women because they are in a common sense thinking on more subjective level then men. Meaning, it's more about what the experience is about or means. Men commonly think objectively, and that manifests in a visual level. There's that damn Yin Yang again... LOL.. I'm visual enough that on a daily basis, many times I'll see a woman I've never seen before, and instantly (if it were socially acceptable,) I'd have no second thoughts and simply ask if she'd fuck me, because of her appearance.I believe there's more to it but this I suppose 2 cents worth and maybe exaggerated to make the point.

peace

To bind oneself a joy, does the winged life destroy.
To kiss the joy as it fly's, lives in eternities sunrise.


pusspush 52M

7/2/2011 5:53 am

I forgot to answer the question. Myself, I joined the website because of the impression I got from looking at it. It was very bold and sexually expressive to me. It kinda blew me away thinking,"seriously, it's normal to use a close up of a hard on, or pussy for your main profile picture." This led me to think this would be another possibility to share, meet, explore and grow, and it's better than a porn site. You'll never meet the porn stars, or see them in person. Here, you chit chat, mingle, share thoughts, maybe, even meet up, and the realm explodes from there. I joined mostly with the intention to have sex with like minded folks and enjoy it, as little or to the sky, keeping in mind to stay good, real and safe. I did for the sex!!! lol... I can't deny that I really enjoy sharing sex with a stranger for the most part. I also can't deny the feeling oneness in true lovemaking. My opinion is there's no sex better than making sweet love.

To bind oneself a joy, does the winged life destroy.
To kiss the joy as it fly's, lives in eternities sunrise.


sweetsurrender9 50F
12 posts
7/3/2011 9:51 am

    Quoting  :

Wow Awesome


fersheragain 60M
26 posts
7/13/2011 3:46 am

sweet I agree with most of the posters that there has to be some level of connection before intimacy - some people can't control that level and can make the bond deeper than it really is I think


twostr8guys2 51M

7/13/2011 10:10 am

completely agree what ppl have been saying and It's very clearly happens away from this site too!!

Im sure their are marriages dies on this site because they found someone who completes them sexually or maybe their marriage wasn't the greatest so they join this site to find others!

I have been single for 5 months and im no sharp or form to get another lady in my life until i fulfill some fantasies! BUT you never like what happen to your friend, that maybe their is a lady on this site for me!


able225 72M

7/29/2011 10:35 am

I joined to fullfill some life long sexual needs---I've found some really great people that i have come to care about----but for the most part---fun and sex


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