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The Effects of the Mind, By Someone Else
The Effects of the Mind, By Someone Else I honestly don't care if anyone else has posted something in relation to this, and to some extent, wouldn't care if anyone gives me crap over it either; I'll just state, and maybe ask, about the mind has been destroyed by someone who they loved so dearly. I'm not stating this as "bitching" over it because we've all, if not most people, have been there; being with someone who makes you feel like you are invincible, the best you ever are, or simply loved, only wanting to know another opinion than the plain, same old "time heals". Six years I committed myself to a beautiful young woman. Sadly it was not to last. Six years runs through my mind in a constant circle of fear, loneliness, and regret. How much I changed soon after...I would rather ask if it is that easy or how much time is ever needed to heal from the mental wounds that are etched into my mind? Of course no one is ever sure of the right answer. Sure, guys tough it out, and I don't care about being called a pansy or weak, but when you put all of your time and effort into something and it all comes crashing down, I'd like to see the optimist that is left standing. "It is better to have love and lost then to have never loved at all"...or some crap like that, clearly experience is always gained, call me a pessimist, but what if the experience gained is to not fully trust another person with your life, can you really open up again, or do you ever feel as if no one will ever replace or be as good as that one relationship...is finding someone else an easier way to forget? or can anyone simply state that after much time with someone, it is easy to move on? Time heals all wounds, but they leave scars, some<b> scars </font></b>don't go away.. |
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