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Number of Married Men Here  

kcclaire0923 68F  
411 posts
6/20/2016 5:49 pm
Number of Married Men Here


I have been a member here on FriendFinder-x since 2011. The number of married men on this site is so over whelming to me. They should rename this site "FriendFinder-x Married Men Site." Yes I have had my share of chatting and meeting one or two of these men but being last on their priority list really stinks. Their explanations as to why they are members here is always the same......

!) Sex is nonexistent or has become stale
2) She is a bitch all or most of the time
3) She has let herself go and is not attractive anymore
4) I feel unwanted and she has no romantic tendencies
5) I am just a paycheck to her and not a husband

The list can go on and on. We single women on this site prefer to be a priority to those men we give our bodies to but of course a married man has his family/wife commitments. I feel like I am only a "piece of ass" and nothing else simply because he can't be here when I need him. The single/divorced and widowed men on this site have the time; but most prefer to also be a "player" like the married men. I guess this just in't the kind of site to find a good monogamous sex partner but I have to say thatAFF is my guilty pleasure. I have attended meet and greet events and made some lifelong friends, both male and female in my age group. Friends I can call on the phone anytime to talk about family, jobs, recipes and relationships.

It feels good to vent about this; I will say that I will never ever get married again but if I did I certainly would take care of my husband in every way so he wouldn't need to look for sex outside our marriage. So I really do "get it." But it can be frustrating especially when there is chemistry and he is married!

{=} {=} KCClaire0923

dwz5234 71M
2394 posts
6/20/2016 6:04 pm

very well spoken,i'm a single man an have a hard time finding a good woman on this site


classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
6/20/2016 6:42 pm

Or maybe we should reexamine this forsaking all others til death do us part. People change over the years. Maybe long term monogamous relationships are not what we are geared for.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
6/20/2016 7:07 pm

As a married woman, I find the single men to be a waste of my time .. not one single man has been worth the while. The married men however seem more attentive, and worth my time. All depends on the perspective I guess.


lookin4funinBC9 63M
1386 posts
6/20/2016 7:20 pm

I am married and there married women here who are looking for the same as me a friend. If the profile says, no married I never contact. I am just looking for a friend so please don't judge me. Have a great evening.


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