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Back and excitement is brewing....!  

She_Is_Looking 50F
89 posts
4/14/2014 4:59 pm
Back and excitement is brewing....!


Well it has been a long while since I have enjoyed the visual goodies of this site and the messages that await in my inbox. That is, until the messages include simple two lines generally comprised of 'hey, nice pic. like a big cock?'

Now, don't get me wrong. Who DOESNT like a big cock but to be honest, a more thoughtful email often breaks the monotony of simple cock shots. When I think about it, it IS a sex site and well, generally cocks are a given (as are tits, pussy and ass). But, is it wrong the enjoy the excitement of new connections? The anticipation of the next message? The build-up to that first meeting? I mean, I am NOT looking for a marriage proposal or heck, even a committed relationship (got both of those already, thanks) but is it too much to ask that there be a bit of effort?

I am a 'people-person' who has an entire career of engaging others, making them feel like they are the most important person in that room (till I negotiate what I want from them or their company). So, naturally, this spills over into other aspects of my life. When I choose to take on a 'lover', I want them to feel like the most important person in the room, the sexiest, most desirable person...is too much to want the same in return?

So! My question to you:

How do you make the moves on your next 'partner'? A cock-shot, one-liner? or an exciting series of messages and build-up?

She_Is_Looking 50F
29 posts
4/14/2014 5:39 pm

Thanks for saying that! Intelligence is fricking sexy! Love to hear a man saying that!
Thanks!!! Bring on the summer!


OttawaMan43sum 53M
2220 posts
4/14/2014 6:55 pm

Glad you asked!

I create a sex-based resume listing my attributes, skills, and experience. Then I customize the cover letter based on the position(s) I'm looking to fill.

I generally prefer a telephone interview followed by an oral exam. I enjoy being tested on my ability to multi-task and am very motivated in being a "team player".


She_Is_Looking replies on 4/17/2014 4:34 am:
Bahaha!!!! You take things very seriously!!!! Committed to the job!

PlayfulOttawan 53M
129 posts
4/14/2014 11:57 pm

When I'm trying to attract someone new and make them feel special I try to engage them on something new in their lives or a shared mutual interest. Then we can find out if our shared interests can lead to flirting and then more.


She_Is_Looking replies on 4/17/2014 4:35 am:
Solid approach!!!! And judging by your profile pic it's working for you!

searchforyou3 59M
1112 posts
4/17/2014 4:12 pm

Well hi! Welcome back! It's great to see you here again, I always enjoyed reading your blog.

I tend to agree with Ottawaman, it's very important to succeed at an interview, lol

But seriously, it it really important to just be yourself and show friendship. Your true self will shine, and just might attract someone. After that, the buildup and anticipation will come....


searchforyou3 59M
1112 posts
4/17/2014 4:17 pm

BTW, you have quite an intriguing pic!


Phonix1970 53M  
5 posts
5/1/2014 8:33 pm

Personally I like to establish, at least on the surface, a connection based on open and honest conversations (yes intelligence is very sexy) mutual attraction (teasing pics and videos) and definitely some good natured flirting. Depending on the personalities involved this may or may not take long to develop. I think building up too much hype before actually meeting face to face can lead to exaggerated expectations and thus possible disappointment, not always but it happens. The real world is where the horizontal mambo is going to happen so I say meet there sooner than later and if the interest and attraction continues and grows then it's game on.


Phonix1970 53M  
5 posts
5/1/2014 8:34 pm

PS just had to add the "cock" shot


She_Is_Looking 50F
29 posts
5/10/2014 6:53 pm

you guys are awesome!


ott4discreetfun 43M
14 posts
6/10/2014 7:49 am

She_Is_Looking you are extremely sexy and obviously a very intelligent woman who knows what she wants! I'm dying to meet up with you one day before!! This summer would be nice considering we are very close


rh1972 51M
609 posts
6/7/2016 4:11 pm

Hope you're checking your blog; drop me a line sometime...


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