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Blogs > igotplentytogive > ravings of a lunatic mind

why i'm not into b & d  

igotplentytogive 48M
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22 posts
8/29/2013 10:44 pm
why i'm not into b & d

so these are the things that randomly go through my head during the day.

For the longest time I have been perplexed by the idea of dominance... I could never understand who would ever want to be a dom or a sub... now please understand I'm not judging here(its very important, to me, that you understand that)... but... well I don't get it! I don't see the attraction to the lifestyle...

And then it hit me, I know why I'm not into the lifestyle! I work in the customer service industry... soo I work in that lifestyle! With my customers I am the submissive... yes sir you are right, right away sir we'll get that fixed for you! (no I will not tell you where I work) and then to my own employees I am the dom... I told you to do that an hour ago! what were you thinking? Do it now or else!!!

So why would I want to bring my professional life into my personal life? don't I get enough of that during my 12 hr work day??? Problem solved!

39FallenLilAngel 49F
66 posts
9/27/2013 12:38 am

 I have no interest in slave/master stuff. I'm not in the lifestyle either.

However, I love it when a man knows what to do, and takes charge. Has confidence in bed. Doesn't have to ask me "if it feels good" the kind of man I am thinking about knows I think it feels good. Bring on the dirty talk at times even, but be confident!


igotplentytogive replies on 9/27/2013 9:22 pm:
yes I can get that.... but I was speaking pretty specifically about the more hardcore stuff.... ropes, whips, punishment etc... the appeal of which still eludes me, though with my little mental 'break through' at least i understand why i'm not attracted to it... and that's important

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