100 posts 2/17/2018 11:02 am
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Valentine’s Day is over again.... Perhaps you’re thinking that I am going to post how much I despise Valentine’s Day.
Nope.
Do I go around<b> singing </font></b>it’s praises? Nope.
Once again, the wife turned me down for a date, did not mention the card I left her, nor did she get me anything for that day. I know she loves me, in her own fashion, and that she is not big on demonstrating that emotion. I married her knowing all of that; why would I ask her to change?
I will continue to ask her out, both on occasions, as well as “just because”. I will get her a card for Valentine’s, and I will expect nothing in return. Just as I accept her as she is, I think she accepts that I am not going to stop doing these little things.
So does that mean I have finally accepted how our relationship is going?
Nope. I will continue to ask her out - and flirt - and get her cards and flowers - not because it is what is expected of me, but because I want her to know that, if she ever wants to spend time with me just, well, doing something people do, then she should know I am ready to spend that time with her. Even if that something isn’t adult in nature.
How was your Valentine’s Day? Anything special with your seeetie?
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