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Blogs > lonely_girl1974 > The Spinster War Chronicles

Say it with... Deli meat?  

lonely_girl1974 50F
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1/3/2015 9:45 pm
Say it with... Deli meat?

Is it common place for the people who are slicing the deli meats and cheeses in the big box stores to hand out slices for your to eat?

I think this guy was hitting on me.

When I thanked him he told me he was "feeling generous today."

He waited on me once before, also an odd experience. I had ordered a pound of hard salami, which is my norm, and he proceeded to tell me in great detail about his mutual 'love' of hard salami.

I'm pretty certain he mentioned a wife though....

I feel kind of bad, I only half listened to what he was saying and blew him off because I felt like he was hitting on me then, too.

It isn't that I dislike this guy, I really don't know him from Adam.

I'm just one of those women.....

I'm not overly attractive, or remarkable really, but I seem to draw the attention of the opposite sex. Maybe it's my personality.... I'm not really sure.

Whatever it is, I end up putting on the icy exterior and unfriendly battle armor for protection.

lonely_girl1974 50F
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1/4/2015 2:54 pm
    Quoting getlucky2132:
    His love affair with hard salami, WTF? If he turns around, then turns back around with a hard salami sticking out of his pants, he may be hitting on you If he swirls a stick a pepperoni in your face, he may be hitting on you etc...

    Just joking, and hitting on you
LOL... No, there were no waving of meat sticks. That would have been a sight though.


lonely_girl1974 50F
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1/4/2015 2:53 pm
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LOL I did enjoy the salami.


lonely_girl1974 50F
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1/4/2015 2:52 pm
    Quoting Canus2011:
    I always look at the ring finger, but yeah ...sounds like he was flirting a little at the least (I see nothing wrong with that). I've had a few girls get flirty with me lately; I sometimes think the "not really looking" thing draws them in somewhat (seems like that NEVER happens when you ARE looking!). I tend towards "extremely flattered" by it though!
I never look at the ring finger, I think it's different for women. A lot of guys don't wear a wedding band, so it can be misleading. My ex-husband never wore his because of his job, he nearly lost his finger when it got hooked in a piece of machinery.


lonely_girl1974 50F
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1/4/2015 2:47 pm
    Quoting nomad___:
    I've never met you in person, but perhaps you have an "aura" that reels them in. The dose of insight coupled with a wry sense of humor that comes across sometimes in your posts grabs my attention. I don't think my approach would be to offer you meat though, but maybe that's all the guy had to work with.
He was a guy in a deli, I'm pretty sure that was about his only possible angle. LOL I'm actually very witty and smart in real life, I have a pretty sarcastic sense of humor.


Canus2011 57M
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1/4/2015 10:01 am

 I always look at the ring finger, but yeah ...sounds like he was flirting a little at the least (I see nothing wrong with that). I've had a few girls get flirty with me lately; I sometimes think the "not really looking" thing draws them in somewhat (seems like that NEVER happens when you ARE looking!). I tend towards "extremely flattered" by it though!


getlucky2132 45M
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1/3/2015 10:10 pm

 His love affair with hard salami, WTF? If he turns around, then turns back around with a hard salami sticking out of his pants, he may be hitting on you If he swirls a stick a pepperoni in your face, he may be hitting on you etc...

Just joking, and hitting on you
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