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What We All Want  

rm_travelguyoh 63M
7254 posts
3/27/2012 5:08 pm

Last Read:
3/28/2012 7:27 pm

What We All Want


I’ve read a number of stories of here on how a woman wants to be treated and some their sexual exploits whether it is in fantasy or in real life. As a guy; I take great pleasure in knowing that my partner has been satisfied not only with my sexual prowess, but leaving them with the feeling of being loved and needed afterwards.

I have found over the years; “there is nothing sexier than making love to a person’s mind as much as their body”.

As a guy I can say that the biggest turn-on for me is when you meet someone who wants to satisfy your sexual needs as much as you want to satisfy theirs. These are a few of the things I enjoy and like to share with my partner.


Sneak Up Behind Them

I have found there in nothing better in the world, that when you walk up from behind your partner and put your arms around them and have them melt in your arms “we all need that sometimes”. Sexually speaking; is there anything better than coming up behind your partner and suggestively moving your hands over their body and have them surrender to you. That faint smell of who they are and the moment of ecstasy to have the chance to whisper in their ear or kiss their neck or back. While we do not admit it openly, we guys like that too.

Getting Naked

There is nothing sexier than the view of a nude body and seeing the partner that you will be making love too. There's a good chance that unless you have been together several times your partner has never feasted their eyes on your completely bare bod for more than a few seconds. Maybe it's because you undress quickly in a passionate frenzy or your bodies are too close to really take you in. But letting your partner stare at you in the buff is a surefire libido trigger.

Take a Sensual Shower

This always turns out to be a better idea than reality, but when it happens, there is nothing more pleasurable. Add the water pouring over you, and this is a perfect position for lots of wet passionate kissing and exploring each other bodies with soapy hands. For me; it’s the look in your partner’s eyes, to further boost the intimacy factor.

Find a New Favorite Spot

When you’re ready to take things to a different level; steam things up at home by moving outside the bedroom and doing it on top of a sturdy table, kitchen counter, bathroom sink, or hood of a car that's parked in your garage. Not only does it make new memories but it can give you that feeling of change in your relationship.

Turn Them into a Buffet

Incorporating food into your passion play is a classic carnal activity. Take a few of your favorite erotically appealing flavor combinations, like peanut butter and honey or whipped cream and chocolate sauce, and mix up yummy treats all over their body. Like with any relationship, change and trust are the foods of life.

Make Them Long for Your Lips

It all starts and finishes with the kiss. A fabulous kiss is an intricate balancing act involving tongue technique, pressure control, and moistness monitoring. More than the technical aspects; it’s the passion and the emotion and when you find that great kiss it covers up a multitude of sin.

Play No-Hands Exploration

Instead of a TV show or a book; change the pace by telling your partner to keep their hands to themselves and see how long you can last. You can explore each other's bodies with your lips, tongues, and breath. I’ve had some of my best orgasms and memories doing this.

Taunt Them

I have found that a little playful sexual teasing builds your partners desire so that when you finally do pounce on each or stimulate the mind, every touch is extra delicious. As you are out doing everyday things; get things going by some sexual teasing and sensual whispers. You'll drive your partner crazy with anticipation. I always found that it’s in the grocery store or a restaurant that it works the best.

Make Them Hot, Then Cold

There is something to be said about cooling off your partner steamy body in the art of actually getting them hotter. Make their satisfaction skyrocket by turning them on to deliciously unexpected strokes, pressures, and temperature changes. Try the classic ice-cube trick to make them shiver with excitement. Have them lie on their back, hold a cube in your hand or mouth, and slowly draw an icy line from their neck all the way down their body. I like to do this both to my partners back and chest as a change of pace to build anticipation.

Seduce Them with Being Direct

Sometimes the art of being direct by saying something like "I want to have sex with you” is a way of breaking the ice. The straightforward approach is not merely about saving time (although it does have a way of cutting to the chase), it's about giving yourself the opportunity to display extreme sexual confidence, and to advertise yourself as a person who assumes that whatever they wants, they can have.

Play a Little Rough Sometimes

Explore your boundaries a little and have some fun by being a little rough, I have found that a playful smack on the ass, nipple play, or maybe pulling their hair is a great way to spice things up. I tend to enjoy a little nipple play, wrestling in the bed or having your nails run down my back, that send me over the edge. I have also found it’s that nasty conversation or a little role play that works as well. My thought is; it’s all about the communication, trust and exploration.

The Art of a Quickie

I saved this for last because my view on this is somewhat different than most. There are those moments when you are doing something that you hate, your nervous about or maybe even scared to do; and your partner senses that in you and gives you a special moment that gets you past the situation. There is always the flip side of that coin when your partners libido is raging and they just need to get laid, myself I been on both sides of that coin. For me learning the art of a<b> quickie </font></b>is more about making love to your partner then fucking them in a moment of passion.

The need to please your partner should always be equal to that of being wanted, and in those moments you will truly understand the feeling of bliss.


some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
3/28/2012 7:47 am

I wanted to break things up a little bit and I'm glad that it was well received.

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


oneladybrijit 66F
420 posts
3/28/2012 6:23 am

Much of that is really good, just I do hate hard surfaces, they hurt!

I will get angry if treated with an ice cube, and that pain thing has to be very carefully considered. Yes, the right touch of pain, will send you into a wild outcome, only the wrong painful touch will do what it did to me for many years, sent me cold, and will continue to do so.

I have failed to mention something. Unlike most other women, I am a sensitive type, so if a man does to me, what he does to any other woman, there is a good chance he won't see me again, despite endless communication before this "event".

Then there was one more thing, umm . . The Buffet. Someone wanted to eat strawberries, only they became jam, and then they looked like. . .ok, at least I didn't say it.

you thought I had never done anything in my life! Didn't you! there is a reason why I have a wicked grin, and it's not for lack of mischief, uh, that's private mischief.

Ok, there is one more thing, just have to look back again. . .oh, the quickie!

when we have spent many hours chatting and conversing, and then I or he drive/s several hours to see the other, mmmmmmm, things can happen very fast! and it's all good. To me the quickie is the outcome of a previous prep session if you like.

Then again, I knew one man who, mm, yes, thank you, oh, and yes again, oh, and will we? ok, and it's over again, and every time there was a smile on both his and my dial, yet it had happened very quickly!

. . . and you thought I was a prude!

I don't often say much, and when I do, yep, it can be a lot like a picture! . . .and that could be a good thing, as a man asks . . . why did God give her a mouth??? if you put it to the right use! ..


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
3/27/2012 7:56 pm

thank you

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


Ready4change12 84F

3/27/2012 7:40 pm

Great post...enjoyed read it too

So


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
3/27/2012 5:53 pm

that was my thought...i just have a different view on it

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


wislookinforfun1 43M
1 post
3/27/2012 5:41 pm

who doesnt love a quicke


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