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Dealing With Large Breasts
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Dealing With Large Breasts When you have big breasts they define who you are. When you walk they jiggle under your chin, catch small bits of food you drop when you eat (salad dressing and taco fillings are the worst) and act as proud beacons for attention as you make you way through the day. DD-cup or larger breasts feels like you have two weights on your chest, and dealing with them dominates much of your life. It’s hard work to stand up straight without feeling the weight pulling on you. They throw my center of gravity off so I have to lean back a little to avoid back pain. I almost have scars on my shoulders from tight bra straps. A lot of athletic activities such as jogging are almost impossible because even with a sports bra my boobs are big and heavy enough to hurt when they bounce up and down. This has caused me to avoid working out at times and is one of the major regrets I have about my body. Even my friends who love me refer to me as the one with the big boobs. Most guys can’t even carry on a regular conversation without either staring at them or sneaking glances, which are too obvious to miss. When alcohol is around, random men and women grab a big handful of boob and squeeze them. I’ve had people squeeze them and say, “Honk, honk!” The catcalls I’ve gotten are stunning. I regularly pass groups of guys and one of them says, “Look at the tits on her!” Many of my friends now have small . I love and someday want to be a mom so I enjoy holding my friends’ babies whenever I can. But I have had several instances where the baby instinctively tried to latch on for nursing. You do hear innocently point out the size of my breasts to their family and friends. I hear things like, “Look at the size of her boobies.” I know it’s completely innocent but it takes years of hearing it to develop a thick enough skin not to let it bother you. I get asked by men and woman almost everyday things like “are they real?” or “what size are they?” It’s not uncommon to have my breasts “accidently” brushed against or men to offer to give me hug for the most random reasons. People assume anyone with large breasts is either dumb, slutty or both. Women routinely make crude comments. Sometimes they are meant to be compliments but just as much they are a way for other less well endowed women to cope with jealousy issues of having a smaller chest. I know this but it has always bothered me. Men assume I’m always ready for sex. Guys in bars are so sexually aggressive that I usually get several offers where the guy just comes out with it and suggests we go someplace to be alone. One time I asked a guy why he was so sure I’d jump into bed with him five minutes into our conversation and he said he just assumed it. Sometimes even women who should know me better, assume I might be a threat if I’m left alone with their boyfriends or husbands. I recently had a very close friend tell me she won’t let her husband be alone with me when I’m showing<b> cleavage </font></b>or in a swimsuit because he might not be able to control himself. I’ve had a female boss I deeply respected suggest I try to avoid being alone with male coworkers just in case. I dress conservatively at work so assume there shouldn’t be a problem but I am regularly given advice on how to dress less suggestively by coworkers and superiors. Appearently wearing even a turtleneck sweater or blazer is too suggestive. Men are actually hesitant to date me because of the attention my breasts attract even the ones who are turned on by my breasts. I’ve been told by a guy I had dated a month or so that he was embarrassed by my breasts size because they made his friends all think I was a bimbo. He even suggested he hesitated to introduce me to his parents because they would get the wrong idea about our relationship once they saw how large my chest was. This from a guy who spent hours playing with them and often told me they were his favorite physical feature on my body. When it comes to swim suits everything I wear looks indecent. I rarely wear a bikini unless I’m alone, with a group of girls, or trying to lay out. Even when I wear a one piece guys notice. Men have this weird thing where they think they can stare if they’re wearing sunglasses but it’s obvious to me. I don’t want people to assume having big boobs sucks because there are some major benefits. Showing<b> cleavage </font></b>and leaning over enough to really display them gets me better service when men are involved. When I was working as a waitress my tips were directly proportional to the tightness of the uniform shirts they made us wear. It’s awesome to put on a tight t-shirt or dress and seeing a sexy hourglass figure come into shape. Even a simple t-shirt lovingly hugs big boobs in a way to transform what you’re wearing into an incredibly sexy outfit. I look great at the beach or pool in a swim suit with a large t-shirt over it. When I’m alone with a guy I love wearing bikinis and lingerie. Watching their eyes pop out of their heads is an incredible boost to my ego and I try to remember this feeling whenever my body generates more negative comments. At these times I feel its worth having very large breasts despite the challenges I just described. A lot of men worship large breasts. I’ll never know why but I’ve learned to just accept it. Having a curvy body seems to encourage a partner to really focus on touching and exploring my body during sex and I’m all about that! Nothing is better than spending a few hours while your partner plays and sucks on your breasts. On top of that, having really big boobs gives you the ability to provide a top notch tit-fuck that most women can’t offer. Large breasts can get you out of trouble. I did go through a phase where I sought out attention from professors who seemed to stare at my breasts by wearing tighter clothes or showing off my<b> cleavage. </font></b>It paid off because most of these professors gave me much higher grades and I barely had to try. In one case I missed a test because I was out sick and he said not to bother making it up because he had already assumed I’d get an A. In another situation I didn't even have to show up for class despite an attendance requirement to still get a pretty decent grade. I’ve been stopped many times for speeding and the cop flirted with me a few minutes and gave me a warning. This situations seem to arise late at night on weekends while I'm out with my girlfriends. I don’t know for sure if my breasts got me off in all of these situations but in a few of them the cops actually referred to my breasts as being "incredible" or "look like a lot to carry" and I’ve never actually gotten a ticket of any kind while most of my friends have. I don’t recommend woman use their sexuality for like this but I learned a lot about men when I did. Big breasts have their pros and cons. There are a lot of challenges when you have them. At this point in my life I have learned to deal with most of them and am happy with my body. Maybe someday I’ll take the drastic step of getting a reduction but for now I’m a happy girl who is enjoying what I’m blessed to have. |
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4/21/2018 9:19 am |
I enjoyed reading today's post and look forward to your next. There's something to your writing. Best of luck
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Thank you for the interesting post. As a man, I am extremely self conscious of staring. Sometimes it is difficult not to stare at a large set of breasts...I appreciate them and wish you well.
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