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The Healing Power of the Orgasm
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The Healing Power of the Orgasm As a Holistic Health Practitioner I am always fascinated with the human body, how it works, how it heals it’s self and how to assist that healing process. Over the years I have had several who have suffered from chronic conditions such as; migraines, headaches, back problems, digestive or menstrual problems. While I was able to give them more relief than western medicine, many reported that the most relief they ever experienced was during and after sex. This amazed me. I knew sex was a great stress relief and felt good, but how could it relieve such pain that even strong narcotics like Demerol and such couldn’t help? I had to find out if there was really something to it. I have spent several years researching other cultures, religions, spirituality, and the latest in modern western science as well as conducting my own experiments to understand this further. In this research I have had many eye opening experiences and found a long history and wealth of information in regards to the healing powers of the human orgasm. Before going into this any further let me state that there is a difference between ejaculation and orgasm. Ejaculating is the release of sperm and seminal fluid. Orgasms are a build up and release of energy that flows throughout the body and energy field. Most of the time we reach orgasm when ejaculating, but I just want you to understand that they are two separate things that can be done together or independent of each together. Eastern beliefs state that when you ejaculate you are losing precious energy and the overall goal is to achieve orgasm without ejaculation. In Traditional Chinese Medicine the sexual energies are stored in and produced by the kidneys. Each time you ejaculate you loss that energy which cannot be regained. When you can achieve orgasm without ejaculating then those energies are consolidated and re-circulated throughout the body. In this article I am referring to achieving the state of orgasm, whether you ejaculate or not. If you only ejaculate it will not have the same healing effect. Also within Eastern beliefs it is felt that if you ejaculate often it will affect your overall health due to low kidney energy. I know there is much discussion about female ejaculation, but I am not able to find any reference in Chinese Medicine for women losing any kidney or vital energy from sex. Women lose their vital energy during menstruation and pregnancy. Although in Tantra it is believed that anyone can lose their sexual energy and I have found this to be true. If you are completely exhausted after sex then you are extending your energy outwardly and not inward. If you properly build and circulate your sexual energy then you will feel energized and blissful. I will start with the rational and scientific information. Most of us know that when we have an orgasm our pituitary and other glands release several neurotransmitters, neuro-peptides and hormones. Our bodies are the most efficient, complex and efficient pharmaceutical producers that exist. Nitric oxide, serotonin, dopamine, epinephrine, norepinephrine, testosterone, oxytocin, adrenalin, cortisol, and pheromones are just a few of the chemicals our bodies produce and release during sex and orgasms. Most of the chemicals listed above, we know as the feel good hormones. They are highly responsible for relieving pain, keeping us in stable and good moods, help us sleep soundly and cause many other positive benefits for our mind and body. So it is easy to see that having sex and achieving an orgasm would flood the body with so many natural pain killers how could we not feel good and be relieved of our pain? Yet, there is still more to it. Modern science now knows that our thoughts dictate how we feel. When we feel good and we are having a positive day our glands release neurotransmitters and hormones that send signals to ever cell in our body that we are happy and feel good. When we are in pain or in a bad mood our glands send neurotransmitters that relay that those messages to every cell. Have you ever not felt well and then watched a funny movie or been around friends or family and had a really good time laughing to later notice that you feel better? The saying “laughter is the best medicine” couldn’t be truer. Not only laughter but any kind of joy or pleasure is the best medicine to heal the body naturally. Even if when we are in a great amount of pain, if we can distract ourselves and find something funny or joyful long enough for your brain and glands to release all of those chemicals into our bodies and to each cell we can shift the pain and discomfort to joy and feeling well. Bio feedback is a way of treating chronic pain by helping you to learn to put your focus on something other than the pain and in doing so the pain is decreased and can even go away completely. But I have found that when you combine shifting your attention away from the pain and to something that makes you happy and even better something that brings you pleasure the effect is much greater. We only shift back to the pain when we turn our focus to it again. In cases where the pain is chronic and long term it take several times and longer periods of joy to shift the physical body and completely heal it, but it can be done. One thing I have definitely learned is that there is nothing the human body can’t do. It is designed to heal its self. Every cell in our body is replaced with new cells over time. So there is no reason our bodies can’t just replace old damaged or diseased cells with healthy new cells. Think about it. Our bodies can mend broken bones, heal deep cuts, and if part of our liver is removed it can re-grow that part. We can fight off any disease. Many people have defied all knowledge of modern medicine by surviving a disease when every doctor said they wouldn’t. So why would we not think our bodies are capable of healing its self in any and every way? Now let’s take that concept much deeper into energy and spiritually. Everything around us and in us is energy. Even Albert Einstein said all matter is made of energy. When you break anything down to its atoms they are made of protons and neutrons. Protons and neutrons are energy. So everything in its purest and simplest form is energy. Everything you can see, touch, and taste are all made of energy. Every cell in our bodies is made of energy. Even things you can’t see or feel, like sound and thoughts are energy. All energy has a vibration. Actually it is more accurate to say that energy is a vibration and every kind of energy vibrates at a different frequency. Every kind of energy vibrates at a certain frequency which is what determines its structure or properties. Water being made of 1 hydrogen atom and 2 oxygen atoms has its own vibration which makes water and all of the properties that water possesses. Energies can also change and shift vibrations. Water is an easy example to understand and it so easily shifts from one state to another. If you freeze water it becomes ice. It changes from a fluid state to a solid. The atoms are then vibrating at a different frequency. If you boil water it becomes steam. Once again you are shifting its frequency to a different state or vibration. Over all it is still water and still has 1 hydrogen atom and 2 oxygen atoms but its vibration has been influenced by either heat or cold. Not only matter but all things are energy like emotions and thoughts and they can be influenced as well. Here is a more personal example. Have you ever been around someone who was really angry and negative and after a short time of being around them you started to feel irritable or even angry? Your energy was influenced by the other person’s energy that they were so strongly projecting. This means that energy can influence other energies into vibrating at its own frequency. Now let’s pertain this to orgasm and healing. If we are feeling pleasure and joy then every cell of our body is vibrating at those frequencies. When we are in pain, angry or feeling negative in any way our thoughts and cells are vibrating in those negative frequencies. Whenever we are feeling positive or negative for any period of time those vibrations will begin to shift the vibrations of our cells changing their physical structure. Disease is just that, cells vibrating at an un-natural vibration damaging the cell and other cells around it. Cancer is simply damaged cells vibrating in a way that they multiply faster than healthy cells or their vibration shifts the vibration of the healthy cells around it to vibrating in a frequency that makes the healthy cells diseased as well. Let’s go back to using water for an example. Since it is so easily influenced a group of Japanese scientist headed by Dr. Masaru Emoto did several experiments on water. This research started out to determine how pollution and the environment affected our water. They started by seeing how water crystallized from freezing it. They used distilled water so there would be no influence by chemicals or other minerals. The water froze is a specific crystal form every time. With a base example they started collecting water samples from all over and watched how each sample formed ice crystals. They of course found that polluted water wouldn’t form complete crystals or crystallize at all. They also discovered that water from purer place like the Antarctica, and rural Canada gave incredibly beautify crystals. Imagine the most beautiful snowflakes you can imagine. It also amazed them that water from sacred or religious areas formed incredible crystals. Far different then they expected considering physically there was no different from those water samples and basic ground water taken nearby. Could the vibration of that exact location or the vibration of everyone visiting those areas change the energy of the water? To explore deeper they decided to play music to samples of distilled water. They knew exactly how distill water should crystallize. So would the sound vibrations of different kinds of music shift the vibration of water? It did and with incredible shifts and changes. Each kind of music created different crystals. Even so specific to fitting the music it was unbelievable. An example is when they played Heart Break Hotel from Elvis the crystal never completely formed together; always leaving one part not connected appearing broken or cracked like a broken heart. They did several more experiments using images, words and prayers each giving incredible results. I highly suggest you read his book Messages from Water. Now think about this. Our bodies consist of 80% water. So if water is so easily influenced by environment, sounds, images, words, payer, positive and negative thoughts, then think about how easily our bodies can shift just from the water in our bodies shifting. Traveling deeper into energy I would like to talk about one of the main laws of the universe. That is the law of attraction, where like energies attract other like or similar energies. This means that something that vibrates at a certain frequency will attract other energies that vibrate at the same or similar frequencies. Basically when we think something and have strong emotions projecting those vibrations of thought out around us, we are energically attracting other energies with the same vibration back to us. So when we walk up and feel good and are excited to start our day we send out that positive vibration and people and experiences that match those positive energies are attracted to us and become part of our day and experience. When we wake up hurting or in a bad mood or not wanting to face our day, then we project those vibrations out to our surroundings and attract other people who are negative that day and experiences that continue to feed those negative feelings. We run late, get stuck in traffic, have car problems, nothing goes right at work, boss comes down on you, whatever. There is no escaping that everything is energy. That is basic science. We now know that energy can shift and change from the influence of other energies and like energies are magnetically attracted to each other. I could go much deeper into this but that is a rabbit hole that can continue on and on and I have already rambled quite a bit and have much more to share still. If you would like to understand these concepts more look into Jerry & Ester Hicks and their teachings of Abraham, The Secret, What the Bleep or simply google Law of Attraction. I know I haven’t even mentioned orgasms for the last few paragraphs and if you are wondering how all of these topics relate to orgasms being able to heal the body, mind and soul, I will summarizes everything here. We know that when we feel good our brain and glands send messages to every cell in our body telling them that we feel good. At the same time our thoughts vibrate throughout our bodies vibrating every cell to match our thoughts. Those same thoughts also vibrate all of the water in our bodies shifting the vibration of that water to match our thoughts. Finally our thoughts and energy radiate from our bodies to our surrounding environment and out into the universe attracting other like energies. All of this has a huge potential to heal diseased or damaged cells in our bodies and stimulate circulation of blood and energy throughout our bodies and stimulate production of new healthy cells. So what makes the healing power of orgasms stronger than just positive thinking? It is the intensity, focus and passion during an orgasm that has such healing power. It is often one of the very few times that most of us are completely present and in the moment. We are not worried about bills, what we need to get from the store, how we look and all those little or big things that weigh on us and keep that positive energy from flowing throughout us. You might have sex with some of those thoughts on your mine, but once you reach orgasm I doubt you are thinking anything else other then how it feels. Then for that moment there is nothing but pure pleasure, joy and often ecstasy running though every cell in our bodies. It only takes a moment when the energy is that pure, focused and passionate to make positive changes in the body. The more often and longer we can make that last, the more we can shift our cells into completely healthy and youthful bodies. Now I hope you understand that having a<b> quickie </font></b>is not going to cure your chronic conditions. To have the most affect the love making or even just sex needs to involved the mind, body and spirit and all of our senses. It should be relaxed with no time or agenda other than to give and receive pleasure and joy. Tantra is an excellent way to enhance and prolong the feeling of orgasms. In fact that is one of the main focuses of Tantra. Another focus is to bring in the Devine and sacredness to sex making sex a celebration of the merger of the physical and the Devine with our partner, ourselves and God. Practicing these principles of Tantra can help one truly reach ecstasy and maintain that feeling over long periods from hours, days, weeks, and longer. When we can accomplish this our bodies will be as healthy as they can be. There is so much more to discuss about Tantra and its practices that I cannot go any further into it here. Please read my page on Tantra when you are finished with this page, if you have not already. Aside from Tantra I can suggest that when you have an orgasm try to relax your body and let that feeling flow though you. Imagine it flowing in waves up your spine and though every cell. Imagine that feeling going from your pelvis to your toes and to the top of your head. It is common for people to tense their body because the feeling is so intense, but that constricts the flow of the energy and circulation. So just try to relax, let your body move freely and enjoy feeling it fill your body and savor it like fine food and wine lingering on your taste buds. As you are savoring it know that every cell is celebrating with joy and vibrating at its highest vibration and shifting into completely healthy cells. Massage can also assist your body in relaxing and allowing the blood and energy to flow freely. The more relaxed and open your body and mind can be, the more easily you can achieve orgasm and the more intense the experience will be. This will also allow you to maintain that feeling for longer periods. So now we know that sex not only feels good and can be a good stress relief, but it also has the ability to shift your physical, emotional, energetic and spiritual state of being. Here is an interesting fact that I didn’t mention earlier because I could not find any records describing actually results. In the 1800’s mid to late Victorian era doctors use to massage the clitoris of women who suffered from depression, anxiety, PMS, all female conditions, fainting spells, fatigue, and any emotions or mental stress or conditions. In fact some doctors used this for any condition between the neck and knees. The doctors would massage the women’s clitoris until they reached orgasm. I tried to find something that listed results of these treatments but wasn’t able to find anything. But, I did find a few articles that stated doctors were so busy doing clitoral massages that the doctors started getting carpal tunnel and were not able to see all of their patience because they were so busy. This is actually how the vibrator was invented. A doctor invented the vibrator as a way to relieve the stress on his hands and to help the women to achieve orgasm quicker. Even though I cannot find any records of the results of these treatments it makes you think that there had to be something to them if there was such a demand for the treatments. These were extremely conservative times, especially for women. The treatments were not considered sexual because there was no penetration, but the women would not have been allowed to go for regular treatments if there was not an improvement in their conditions. So it makes me wonder if Tantra and Sex Therapy were part of the medical system and gave treatments of pleasure to those who needed them, wouldn't this be a healthier and happier world? |
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