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wanting something to much
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wanting something to much I have run onto the subject of wanting a relationship a couple times in the last couple of days. A female friend and I were talking and she got to the point of crying about not having a husband. Myself I have never made it a priority to look for a relationship, I guess I am too much of a loner. I figure if it is supposed to happen it will. That might be why I am 51 and have never been married ha ha This gal is so determined to be married and has a list a mile long of why she wants to be married. Her two biggest reasons are is she is supposed to be married and a stay at home mom, and her two sons need a good father figure in their lives. I have known this gal about ten years and her father about twenty years. Her fathers option is she is fucking crazy, his words not mine. But he might be right. I started out selling hay to this gal and her husband. I have seen her make one bad decision after another which I can not understand her line of thinking in her decisions. She is a good looking gal, and at one time she was sending me nude pics and calling me to come fuck her. We did have fun and we were open about what was going on. She would tell me who else she was fucking, and how that was going in her search for a husband. She was not having much luck with men or in making money, I would help her out as much as I could, I didn't just hand money over I let her work for it. Not sexually but running for parts, and she did give me massages when my legs were cramping up real bad.but she would spend all her money taking her oldest to race his motorcycle, which doesn't sound bad but she was not making her house payment. I helped her out two times to get caught up but she is back in foreclosure. It just seems she has decided she would get married and a husband would fix everything and that is the only out come she would accept. Now she will cry at the drop of a hat because she is not married. I can not understand it Anything worth doing is worth doing right |
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Yep, it is sad that she has been taking no action to improve her situation, she did get a job yesterday as a house keeper at a motel, I think it starts at 8.75 a hour, but she was bitchin that it was full time. I don't understand it. Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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Yep that is pretty much my take on it. She basically doesn't want to work, if she is going to get any money from me she is going to work for it. And not in a sexual way. A person has to do what they have to to get by. She ask the other day if she could move a trailer house on one of my farms. I can guarantee that will not happen. Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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Oh my...she sounds like a "hot mess"!!! I feel bad for her too,but I'm with flower,you need to cut the ties! She will keep trying to manipulate you with her drama,and play on your emotions,and If that doesn't work, then tempt you with sex! I understand you have some history with her,but she is her worse enemy,and I feel sorry for the kids! Their Mom is a mess,don't think for one minute,that they don't know it,and how is their lives in the future? Look what she is subconsciously teaching them! Think about it, is it all worth it??? YOu sound like a nice man,you deserve a woman who stands on her own two feet,and independently loves her life!! Oh yeah,and loves to fuck!!! Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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She sounds like a big disaster. Stay away!! Red flag. Your enabling her. Let her husband fix this situation. All you can do is listen to her.. hugssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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She sounds like a big disaster. Stay away!! Red flag. Your enabling her. Let her husband fix this situation. All you can do is listen to her.. hugssssssss V Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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