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ending another year alone  

golosa1115 62F
552 posts
10/5/2013 3:36 pm
ending another year alone
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goodwrench19555 68M
308 posts
10/5/2013 4:11 pm

 Hi I am sorry for the way the men in your live trat you from reading what you had to say about them you need to cut them off if they cannt fine time to spend with you other than to just have sex, Iam marr and looking some one to spend time with and doesn't have to be all about sex . but I do want it to because my wife doesn't want sex as much as I do. but for a woman it comes more likely than for a marr man looking more we be come the most unwanted and the bad part of meeting some one so we do more with out than we get. we I don't want to bore you any more and I do wish better things for you and don't give up.


golosa1115 replies on 10/6/2013 8:05 am:
hi Goodwrench thanks for your note. its not that the man I met treated me bad, not purposely anyway. I have a feeling they have no clue. I just read somewhere that man and woman see things totally different. I give more than I receive. I think its the story of most woman, its rare that a man puts out more than a woman in any type or arrangement or relationship. Married don't realize that to deal with them is not an easy thing. Its like dealing with a secret agent. And I've heard married say too often that they preferred to deal with married woman because they understand their situation more. However a married man usually has it much easier than a married woman. the woman is the majority of time the one that deals with the children, does the housework and has a job. The married man just disappears and goes as he pleases.

goodwrench19555 68M
308 posts
10/5/2013 4:15 pm

 Hi again its is so hard just to get any women on here just to chat most less anything other and if you tell the true about your live marr/ or not . never say marr and looking cause your dead to all the women on then .


golosa1115 replies on 10/6/2013 8:21 am:
You know once I had met a guy at a club, danced all night before the end of the night he took my number. He called me that same week and we went out for coffee and we met for sex on the 3rd of 4th meeting, I went to his place and from there on I went to his place a few times, once I popped up announced. We would meet just for coffee/dinner. He would call/text me a lot during the day going on to the 3rd month. I called and a woman answered I asked for him, she said he was sleeping and that he was her spouse. I was confused and embarrassed. The following day he calls me, apologizes and tells me his story. Not legally married, have not children other than hers, but in a relationship for 5 yrs and had his own place because he always did. I was very connected with this guy and getting very closed. We still meet for drinks/coffee. But I haven't cut him off, because I do like him but I cant find myself to have sex with him anymore.

golosa1115 62F
1066 posts
10/6/2013 8:27 am

 Hi Eponia thanks for your comments and advise. I know you're correct, however sometimes the urge overpowers the demand for respect.


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