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Can Fear Be Sexy?  

lionthatroared 53M
232 posts
10/8/2012 4:48 pm

Last Read:
8/14/2013 10:31 pm

Can Fear Be Sexy?

I hesitated to write on this topic, because I don't want to be misunderstood. Fear and sex are usually associated on an abusive level, and the last thing I want to do is dredge up bad memories or belittle some poor person dealing with an abusive spouse or S.O. I'm not belittling, nor am I supporting in any way, the abuse of anyone. Many people on this site are likely to have abuse in their past on various levels, and I'm one of them, so don't think I'm writing on this topic to make anyone feel bad or ugly or any negative emotion attached to fear. And please don't write about your experiences here, either... it's no one's business, and I want to keep this topic light. Thank you.

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I don't know about the rest of you, but after getting the bejeezus scared out of me, I get horny as hell. The combination of realizing that you're still alive, your adrenaline is on overdrive, and the thrill of being spooked drumming on your veins is enough to get me rock hard and anxious to find a willing lady. It's a documented fact that people who have survived a near-death experience intact have an almost uncontrollable urge to fuck the hell out of their spouses or S.O.'s, and if they don't have either, tend to go FIND someone to fuck the hell out of. Why is that?

I just got back from a weekend at Knott's Berry Farm Annual Halloween Haunt. For those who don't know what this is... where have you been, and what rock have you been living under? Knott's Berry Farm began the tradition of turning their entire theme park into a gigantic haunted place forty years ago, with over a dozen haunted houses, half a dozen haunted shows, the entire park covered in fog and spider webs and hellish deco, and literally hundreds upon hundreds of demons, devils, witches, ghosts, murderers, and monsters of every stripe doing everything possible to scare the crap out of you. And it works. Very well.

They do not hold back the terror at all. They won't touch you, and you can't touch them, but that's about it. They use every trick in the book, and invent a shitload of new ones, to scare the absolute fuck out of you. And by the end of it... the fuck comes roaring back with a vengence, and whoever I'm having sex with at the time generally gets a good week of nearly constant sex out of the deal. I'm serious... if we're not working or otherwise engaged in survival needs, we're naked and sweating and she's looking at me with wild eyes and panting, "Again???"

I just got back, as I said. No girlfriend, and my FWB appears to have disappeared... I'm beginning to suspect, despite her protestations that all is well, that this is her way of saying she's had enough of me. It couldn't have come at a worse time. My cock has been hard as a rock all day, I've jerked off four times since this morning, and even as I'm writing this... I'm thinking about doing it again.

The same thing happened to me on a couple of occasions when my life was actually threatened. I've been held at gunpoint during a robbery before, I've been in combat situations, I've been in fights where I wasn't sure if I was going to survive or not, and every single time... my girlfriend or wife or whatever woman was willing and available got seriously reamed out.

It's weird, isn't it? My life could have ended on those occasions, and I get horny as a stoat. I get a night of being terrified out of my mind, and I'm pleading with my FWB to let me see her for a while.

Do any of you get this way? Does getting scared make you horny? When you watch horror films or read Stephen King or walk through a haunted house, do you want to rip the clothes off the nearest sexy person and do them right there? Or am I alone here?

Maybe this feeds into my thing with costumes, too. Damn it, I'm done writing... Number Five is Alive! If any of you ladies are interested in a seriously horny guy and are within driving distance...

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BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
10/8/2012 6:30 pm

There are a couple of interesting studies that show that if you want to "get lucky" after a movie, you should go see a horror film, not a romance. Couple watching horror films touched more, reported feeling more sexual towards their partner and showed physical signs of arousal.

I'm going to assume that part of this at least, is tied to the adrenaline and other chemicals that flood the brain when one is scared. I also wonder how much of it is a residual animal part of our brain telling us that since we survived the danger (which for cave bound ancestors would have been a life or death thing)we *must* procreate (since as a survivor we obviously have superior genes.

So, not to worry, you are perfectly normal and it happens to everyone.


lionthatroared replies on 10/8/2012 6:59 pm:
Oh, I wasn't worried. It was more of a curiosity thing.

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