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The Conundrum...  

4HerPleasure209 40M
7 posts
3/31/2015 1:02 am

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6/22/2016 9:38 pm

The Conundrum...


Hello readers. Lately I've been wondering what the best profile pic to use is... Women say that they want face pics, but they still like the cock/naughty pics. The naughty pics get me more views, more noticed, but I don't like that it takes that to get those views. I want to be known on here as a respectful gentleman with a dirty/kinky side that a woman asks me to bring out. I don't like to 'force my cock' in your face as the first thing you see about me. I mean, I put lots of thought and effort into my introduction and such where you could feel like you would know me. So I figure I will just bounce back and forth between clean and naughty, as maybe somewhat of a change in moods.

Recently, I changed my screen name from NorCaliCock84, to what you see now. I feel that it was time, like that name just wasn't me anymore. I don't want to come off as cocky. I want you to know that I thank you for all my views/likes/comments, but I prefer chatting with new people and meeting whom I can. I'm on here to meet new people, make new friends. In my current life, I have like no friends, I just work, no play. I go to work, come home and just relax, but I would rather be out making new connections, seeing if one could lead to something more.

I was thinking today, all the relationships I have been in, were with weak minded individuals. I wonder what it would be like to be in one with a strong minded woman. I am attracted to those who need help though, so it would be a big change from what I've known. When I say strong minded, this means a positive energy, one who can defeat depression by simply changing thoughts or focusing on changing the thought. Someone that knows sex cures these thoughts and needs it often as I to relieve the stresses of the day.

Lets talk about looks. I am an average looking guy and I accept that. I use to be skinny before my mid 20s. I don't want a barbie, I could never land a woman like that. I have lots of confidence, but its for people that are like me. Barbie actually intimidates me, lol. I love average women, maybe she works out too and likes to stay in shape, maybe she doesn't have to, but thinks of herself/body as average too. I'm not here to judge anyone. If you have too much weight on you, i will tell you that I'm not looking for that. Mobility matters to me and so does being active. I want the women I'm with to enjoy going to the beach, playing in the water, not letting their bodies make them self conscience about weight. I'm no hunk or anything like that, but I take care of what I have and improve upon it for myself and whoever I end up with in life. I don't want to be known as boring! I love adventure! I love nature and hikes! When I was young I went to the top of Half-Dome in Yosemite, before those damn permits you need now.

Hmm...how should I end this?
During the day I am mostly mobile and at work. During this time, I feel lonely and want someone to talk to. I'll think of a status update, use the app to put it in, and then it doesn't work! It sucks wasting a thought like that. I can chat during work, its a nice luxury to have. I text and Kik, but if I click with someone, I enjoy talking on the phone too, but I can't do that at work or I would.

Ok, now is a nice stopping point. I feel I got most of my thoughts out Expression of thoughts and feelings, matter to a great listener.

PoundCake4fwb 54F
42 posts
5/8/2015 1:07 am

How did you change your user name? Did you have to create a new account?


4HerPleasure209 replies on 5/8/2015 11:40 am:
My Stuff/My Account/Manage Account/Change Username

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