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What is Hot and Sexy?  

missingu2012 74M
1350 posts
10/12/2012 8:34 am
What is Hot and Sexy?

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BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
10/12/2012 9:36 am

Good question. If I came home and found all the lights are dim, candles are lit, music is on low, big fluffy blanket and pillows are on the floor near the fire *and* there were flowers, we could order Chinese for all I care.

You can scrap the rest for me.


Violette001 51F
4619 posts
10/12/2012 10:23 am

gee.. i'm having a really hard time reversing the scenario in my mind to being the one coming home in a bad mood... although i read real slow and careful... I'm the one waiting for him, at home, to make him feel all better. I'll keep working on it... maybe by the end of the day, i'll be feeling tired and crappy enough that I can imagine the reverse. lol =)

oh, but i would so love to be able to wash and massage a bad day out of a man's body and mind... but he does need to have a bath first before that massage you know, it will help him relax even more. So that's the only thing i'd add to the list - i'd have the bath all ready so he can just relax and soak in the warm water, while I wash him up.

"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



thecmfe 41F
372 posts
10/12/2012 3:16 pm

the hand written note....
.
itll last.


MyNameIsKay 62F  
11887 posts
10/12/2012 8:06 pm

I have no thoughts...because I have died & gone to heaven!!! That is the only way this scenario would ever happen. To have someone in my life be that thoughtful is a fantasy. It doesn't matter what he did...it was done for me. To have someone thinking about me when I'm not around...that's what is hot!!!

Swim...Bike...Done


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
10/13/2012 12:01 am

What is hottest and sexiest about the whole scenario?

The words: "Tonight, there is no clock".

A promise that you are willing to "let nature unfold, as it should". That you are "open to anything". That you will "go with the flow". The possibilities are endless, and what "will be, will be".

Possibilities are surprises, waiting to be discovered. How could that not be sexy?

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missingu2012 74M
3135 posts
10/13/2012 9:26 pm

    Quoting Violette001:
    gee.. i'm having a really hard time reversing the scenario in my mind to being the one coming home in a bad mood... although i read real slow and careful... I'm the one waiting for him, at home, to make him feel all better. I'll keep working on it... maybe by the end of the day, i'll be feeling tired and crappy enough that I can imagine the reverse. lol =)

    oh, but i would so love to be able to wash and massage a bad day out of a man's body and mind... but he does need to have a bath first before that massage you know, it will help him relax even more. So that's the only thing i'd add to the list - i'd have the bath all ready so he can just relax and soak in the warm water, while I wash him up.
ahhh ...the bath. I had that in there...but then i thought about it.
This is how i would make sure the water is still "warm" when ready.

After the greeting at the door, pop open the wine and pour a glass for you. While you sit and sip, go start drawing the bath water, and then come back, but leave the bathroom door open, so the sound of the running water can be heard "wherever". Come, sit across from you, looking into your eyes most of the time, but every so often look towards the source of the running water. You can anticipate the bath about to be enjoyed, and let your imagination start taking hold.

This should start cleaning off the grime and grundge of the day, long before you step into the bath!


traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
10/15/2012 6:49 pm

You had me at "I will listen..."


Violette001 51F
4619 posts
10/17/2012 7:04 pm

    Quoting missingu2012:
    ahhh ...the bath. I had that in there...but then i thought about it.
    This is how i would make sure the water is still "warm" when ready.

    After the greeting at the door, pop open the wine and pour a glass for you. While you sit and sip, go start drawing the bath water, and then come back, but leave the bathroom door open, so the sound of the running water can be heard "wherever". Come, sit across from you, looking into your eyes most of the time, but every so often look towards the source of the running water. You can anticipate the bath about to be enjoyed, and let your imagination start taking hold.

    This should start cleaning off the grime and grundge of the day, long before you step into the bath!
ok.. you got me. i'm all ready for that bath! sigh.... =)

"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



Indi297 55F

10/20/2012 10:07 am

What is hot, sexy, and turns me on the most? To be frank it is the unselfishness and the willingness to please. To have someone do these things are a bonus but to have someone think this way in the first place is hot, sexy and really turns me on! Thank you for the great post, it was perfect.


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