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A cuckold, bull or hotwife, which are you?  

evergrnstatewife 53M/63F
1580 posts
4/13/2013 1:52 pm

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A cuckold, bull or hotwife, which are you?


I can honestly say I never knew I would be a cuckold. There was a time in my life when the term and its functions were foreign to me.
I’ve always been kinky though. Always wanted to explore sexually, and thanks to the wonderful world of the web, I have.
There is one thing I’m not.
A bull.
I couldn’t even begin to fill that role or relate to it. My wife has experimented with men who claim to have been bulls, but as the ‘feeling’ out phase began she quickly saw that they weren’t.
That alpha sort of man turns her on, and woman involved in cuckolding relationships desire that too.
Being an alpha man out of bed is completely different, and I mean completely, than inside.
Outside, in the real world, I am an alpha man. Strong and confident. Inside, however, the realness of my sexual being comes out.
You either have it, or not. I think.

As I matured, got married, and began having sex with my wife, I realized how different our sex compared to others I’ve been with was.
Prior too I had been with girls, not a woman. And trust me, there’s a difference.
My wife was very experienced. It’s not to say I wasn’t, just my participation was more junior college than professional.
And it showed.

I realized I was submissive. She would ask me to fuck her, hard and fast, and you know, just fuck her.
I couldn’t. I didn’t know how to. It felt weird and strange.
She became increasingly disappointed which I saw through her body emotions, or lack thereof, which would ultimately bring an end to my hardness.

As we began bringing men into our bedroom the submissiveness showed. What originally started out as threesomes quickly turned into twosomes.
The men would fuck her, like she liked, and I would watch or participate lightly here and there. I saw firsthand the difference she had in her sexual interest and emotions with them.
And, for the first time in my married sexual life I didn’t feel strange watching another man pleasure her. In fact, it felt, right.

Here are some traits of all involved:


Some common cuckold traits are:

- Submissive
- A voyeur
- Bi tendencies or bisexual
- Interest in being humiliated
- Small cock size or inability to use
it
- Chastity or desired to have orgasm
control
- Acceptance

Something I have rarely spoken about is the woman’s characteristics. My wife never knew she had anything of these until we began speaking of and exploring cuckolding.

- Openminded
- Desire for men outside of her
relationship.
- Unfulfilled or satisfying sex life
- Has domme tendencies or an interest
in femdom
- Enjoys exhibitionism
- Enjoys the power
- Attention of men

My wife enjoys the attention of men and the sexual freedom outside of our marriage. Two biggies for her.

For bulls:

- Skilled cocksmen
- Cock size
- Prowess in bed
- Confident, charming and very
charismatic
- Seductive traits
- Lusts for married women

So, which of these traits, either a cuck, bull or a hotwife, do you have?

Shared wife -evergreenstatewife


evergrnstatewife 53M/63F
2274 posts
4/17/2013 6:33 am

    Quoting thax013:
    I'm not much into being a voyeur (though I would like to see another guy fucking my wife while I helped) ... I had questions about Bi tendencies in my 20s, but I realized. Cock does nothing for me, I am neither enticed or repulsed by it, so I'd say no to being bi.
    Not interested in being huiliated, I do that enough to myself, I'd rather not have it from any others, especially my wife. I have good orgasm control. Finally, no acceptance.
    My Intellectual side is very submissive, but I rarely get to explore that side. All the women I have met want a man in control, so I let my inner beast take control. My inner beast is very primal, I would say dominant, but not a domme. It just does whatever it wants, however it wants, while my intellectual side oversees, makes sure I don't hurt her or scare her, and being stronger, it has kicked my inner beast back into it's cage when things are starting to go to far.

    I have all the traits of a bull, except Lust for married women. If they're married, I want to know that the husband is ok with it. I have been hurt by girlfriends hooking up with others behind my back, and I do not wish to give that pain to others. If their husband (or boyfriend for that matter) is ok with it, then they are fair game, like single women.

    So I guess overall, I'm more bull than cuck.
Very cool. It's sounds as if you may be. You can still be a bull and have morals. My wife wouldn't date or see a bull that was married, it's just our thing. The 'inner beast' thing is attractive to woman seeking a lover. Thanks for replying!

Shared wife -evergreenstatewife


thax013 46M
1089 posts
4/16/2013 10:54 pm

I'm not much into being a voyeur (though I would like to see another guy fucking my wife while I helped) ... I had questions about Bi tendencies in my 20s, but I realized. Cock does nothing for me, I am neither enticed or repulsed by it, so I'd say no to being bi.
Not interested in being huiliated, I do that enough to myself, I'd rather not have it from any others, especially my wife. I have good orgasm control. Finally, no acceptance.
My Intellectual side is very submissive, but I rarely get to explore that side. All the women I have met want a man in control, so I let my inner beast take control. My inner beast is very primal, I would say dominant, but not a domme. It just does whatever it wants, however it wants, while my intellectual side oversees, makes sure I don't hurt her or scare her, and being stronger, it has kicked my inner beast back into it's cage when things are starting to go to far.

I have all the traits of a bull, except Lust for married women. If they're married, I want to know that the husband is ok with it. I have been hurt by girlfriends hooking up with others behind my back, and I do not wish to give that pain to others. If their husband (or boyfriend for that matter) is ok with it, then they are fair game, like single women.

So I guess overall, I'm more bull than cuck.

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