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How does one communicate on AFF?  

happyeroticguy2 63M
45 posts
12/18/2015 2:16 pm
How does one communicate on AFF?


Is a first meeting a date? or have the potential to turn into a first date? Chemistry (two way) is definitely a huge factor.

If a profile catches your attention, how many times do you send a e-mail to that person to get their attention/reply?

Are most people here seeking attention or sex?

Here are some simple questions that most people would like a answer to here.

moltenpassion 50M
456 posts
12/18/2015 2:27 pm

That's the mystery and what makes it interesting. The only right answer is that everyone wants and expects is different!


firedup_19 62M
1684 posts
12/18/2015 2:49 pm

If I wanted attention I would post on FB or Twitter, I want hot NSA sex, so this is the place to be...


moltenpassion 50M
456 posts
12/18/2015 3:13 pm

    Quoting Shooga_Slam:
    I don't think alot of people on here have the articulate capabilities to even bang out a 6 word sentence with their fist!
What an awkward sentence. Also, "a lot" is two words.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
12/18/2015 3:27 pm

Anymore it's luck of the draw, even being gold helps, but if you've got friends that standards, to bad !!

A lot of folks using their blogs to chat back and forth.


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
12/18/2015 3:34 pm

Is a first meeting a date? or have the potential to turn into a first date? Chemistry (two way) is definitely a huge factor.
It depends on what the two people agree on. I tend to consider a first meeting just that a meeting. Without meeting, how do you know if you wang to go on a date with someone? Personally, I keep first meetings short, casual and will only meet during the day.

If a profile catches your attention, how many times do you send a e-mail to that person to get their attention/reply?
One time and one time only. Despite what some guys say, if you don't hear back from a woman, it's because she's not interested in meeting you.

It's not because she didn't get your message; it's not because she got busy. If she's really interested in you, you'll hear from her within a week or less. Otherwise, she's not interested. There are few things as annoying to a woman than the guy who writes over and over again. Don't be that guy. One and done

Are most people here seeking attention or sex?
Yes, hahaha. It's hard to make generalizations. I can say this much though, this site is not a vending machine where you put a half assed message in and free pussy pops out. A man has to invest a certain amount of time. Not necessarily hearts and flowers but a woman wants to feel that a man wants to have sex with *her* not that he wants to have sex.

Hope you find this helpful.


happyeroticguy2 63M
19 posts
12/19/2015 2:30 am

Thank you for taking the time to answer some of these questions. I have read many blogs and these questions come up over and over again. There are many answers that could out of these questions. Again, thanks for taking the survey. I look forward to more answers to the questions.


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