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Top 5 Reasons You Are Friends
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Top 5 Reasons You Are Friends If you’ve been trying really hard to get close to a certain girl, you may have found that you’re beginning to actually like spending time with her and want to know her better. You may even have become close enough to her hoping to peak sexual interest. However, somewhere along this long and winding path, you’ve taken the wrong turning and ended up right where you don’t want to be. That’s right, in the dreaded friend zone. Question is, why have you ended here being just friends, when you could’ve been her boyfriend? Here are some of the potential reasons below… 1. You're just too nice It may seem like you’re a good catch, but it’s possible for you to tears a girl too much of yourself too early. By being always available, a woman will see you as overly accommodating at the drop of a hat. Consequently you will be seen as offering zero challenge for her. To put it mildly, you’re just not sparking her in inner fire. 2. You became her best friend voluntarily You have talked lots, listened to her tantrums, watched her crying, in Jordan her moaning about her previous relationships which went badly wrong. Effectively, you employed yourself the role of being her full-time romantic counselor You’ve even done things that her girl girlfriends would normally do. She simply lost any realization of your gender. You’re just another sexless body whom she hangs out with for fun times. You’re her shoulder to cry on, maybe even her very best friend. But in the end, you’re not her boyfriend, just a platonic friend. 3. You've never even asked her out on a date Let’s face it, you may have secretly lusted after her, but instead of doing the right thing and asking her out, you’ve given her every hint of having no more than friendly intentions. If you really like girl you really need to spell it out. Make it clear you have a romantic interest in her. After all, your friend doesn’t know that you want more, so she can’t give it. Try it out. 4. She's just not that into you It’s pretty common. She will find you charming, fun to be around and even laughs at all your jokes. But she simply doesn’t find you attractive and has no sexual chemistry at all with you. That’s just the way it turned out sometimes. If she’s not into you, you need to make a decision. Either stay on being her friend, or move on to someone new. There’s plenty of fish after all. 5. She's just afraid to take it up to the next level Sometimes women see it as very risky to go from being just a friend to a boyfriend or lover. If a woman fears losing a friendship, she will not commit to anything more. Some women are like that, and you’ll never know unless you are in that position. There’s no warning signs. You will just have to work out whether she can overcome her fear to become more than just a friend for you. |
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