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Blogs > Coeus1967 > Selfish Thoughts....

Ancient Mysteries  

Coeus1967 57M
13 posts
3/11/2013 10:48 am
Ancient Mysteries

My last post managed to get me thinking again. Dangerous stuff this blogging. The random thought this time? Does age matter?

Quick answer. Yes.

You may have noticed that I am a gentleman of a certain age (increasingly so since last week). I do however, despite what you may think from reading the drivel I post here, have a certain degree of charm which recently landed me in a situation involving me, a bottle of champagne, a relatively expensive hotel room and a much younger lady. I'm not talking anything illegal or grossly disproportionate here but let's just say she didn't understand my TISWAS reference.

She was cute, intelligent, fairly funny and quite insistent about how she wanted the evening to end. As a gentleman I could hardly disappoint so, Tattinger in hand, we retired to my room for what should have been a middle aged man's<b> wet dream.

</font></b>It wasn't. It wasn't bad - in fact it was pretty "awesome" at the time - but it was very predictable, rather tiring and, to be honest, dull. The problem was that all that was engaged was the body and the libido. My intellect was merely a voyeur of a not particularly good porn movie.

This was I suspect all my own fault but I do think the age gap also had an effect. Her drive was physicality, mine is usually sensuality (hence the last post). In the circumstances my drive deferred to hers since it seemed the right thing to do.

I usually set myself some very particular parameters in my ex marital endeavours in order to make sure they don't come back to bite me. I broke more than one of them this time but all that has done is reinforce my principles:

1. Find someone intellectually compatible
2. Discuss what works for both of you
3. Have enough common ground to make the "quiet" times as enjoyable as the "active"
4. Never over estimate you own physical abilities!

All in all, if you are mature, seek out maturity. The sex will be better, the underwear significantly better and the possibilities less constrained.

Amazon_Animal 48F
23 posts
3/11/2013 11:26 am

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