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Seriously, did you even read my profile? lol  

JeepGurl49341 54F
18 posts
9/8/2013 12:01 pm
Seriously, did you even read my profile? lol


Just thought I'd share. I've been chuckling over this guy every time I see him on-line... He thinks he's got game! I finally gave him what he asked for today, when I decided to post this. It makes me wonder if he's ever read my profile even once in the last year that he's been contacting me. Pretty sure that he didn't. My profile is long, but it's pretty up front about what I'm looking for right from the beginning.

It IS kind of disturbing to know this guy is spreading his joy, and anything else he may have come in contact with, in at least 5 states... From the pics on his profile there have been some takers and from seeing those photo's... obviously, he's not too choosy! I think it's a pretty good guess to assume he emails numerous women whenever he visits their town, hoping to catch a bite.

His profile:

I am looking to be able to have a great time on occasion with a very passionate woman. Let's get this party started.....contact me if you are interested and as horny as I am. I love to please and I make sure that my partners are as well.
I travel often to: CINCINNATI, DAYTON, TOLEDO, COLUMBUS, LOUISVILLE, LEXINGTON, FORT WAYNE, INDY, DETROIT, ANN ARBOR, GRAND RAPIDS and places in between

My Ideal Person: Loves to make a Man feel complete ecstasy and enjoy the reciprocation completely while under the pure bliss of orgasm...

His emails:

08.15.12 Hi there, I will be in GR this Wed. evening on business staying at the BestWestern on 28th. I would love some erotic company. If you are interested txt or call me and we can chat. Bob

01.07.13 Hello Hon.
I will be in GR next Wed night. Maybe we could get together for a drink or dinner?
Txt me
Rob

04.15.13 hello

I will be in GR this Tues and Wed evenings staying at the Ramada Plaza hotel on 28th.
Maybe we can have dinner at Uccello's?
Call or text me to let me know

Bob

06.12.13 Hello there,

YOU ARE SOOOO HOTTT!!!

So I will be in GR tomorrow evening, Wed. on biz. travel.
I would love to have some company with a beautiful lady such as yourself. Dinner, Drinks and we can see what happens next.....?
Let me know if you are interested. I am a sane normal guy from Ohio. MWM, HWP and I enjoy pleasing a woman.
txtme
Rob

08.26.13 Hey there FriendFinder-x friend,

I will be in GR on biz travel Tues night staying at the Crowne Plaza on 28th.
I am looking for some great company while I am there. No strings. Dinner, drinks, me, you and then we see what happens.
I do get to the area about every 6-9 week for biz so this could become a regular thing.
Me, I am VGL, HWP, MWM 5'10" 200# professional and clean.
I am just looking for some fun companionship.
If you like what you see then contact me and we will see where it goes.

Rob

08.26.13 Hello Rob,

You flatter me. Thank you! To be very honest, I won't meet with you. I don't want to lead you on. You seem like a very nice man, but I believe we are looking for different things. I am looking for one man who is looking for the same from a woman.

Have you read my profile? From yours, I can see that you already have friends and that is Great. Personally, I refuse to be just another woman in another port or so to speak. I'm not trying to be offensive. I'm just being honest. Good Luck!

*****

08.26.13 Thanks *****,
Appreciate the honesty. Have fun..
Rob

do me a favor.
please block me and delete me from your friend network so that I do not contact you in the future.

LMAO!!! He asked me to block and delete him! Rob or Bob or whatever his name is! Everyone of his emails screams form letter. That is one of my bigest peeves!!! I am curious as to how many of us in West Michigan have received them...lol

If any of you ladies are interested I've got a number...

If she's Amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be Amazing. If she's Worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not Worthy... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you gotta find the one's worth suffering for. Bob Marley


will_lickurclit 58M
9 posts
9/12/2013 3:53 pm

Hey, something you may want to consider is to reproduce your profile on your blog so that standard members can actually read it. I believe the guy who is emailing you probably is not a standard member or else he would not be able to email you so much.


ffmcpl 68M/66F  
13 posts
9/8/2013 1:10 pm

actually, except for his not catching your desire for a one-man-one-woman 'thing' (which might have been caused by your very lengthy profile which you apparently expect everyone to read completely), he seemed to act like a true gentleman all along - not the typical male just looking for a quick fuck. he does not appear to be using a form letter (we get those), each message was different. he was clear about why he desired to meet (being in town on business, maybe he just does not like to be alone and likes to meet new people, maybe he is looking for some variety sexually, maybe he is married and if he is maybe has an OK from his wife to meet women while out of town - not uncommon for FriendFinder-x couples). he was kind enough to offer to buy you dinner. he stated he had no expectations, but hopes, of sex with you - after his initial email that did smell like he was looking for a quick fuck. the fact that he repeatedly invited you means that he finds you attractive, and probably not just physically. the fact that he asked you to block him seems like a big plus and class act, as he is offering to not bother you again - FriendFinder-x does not have a 'notes' section like other sites like this do, where you can record prior conversations/compatibility, so blocking is about the only way to show respect for your desire. and your responses showed honesty and class on your part. in all, you two seemed like you could have a nice time together, were it not for your reason to be on here. but bottom line, he seems more appropriate to be on FriendFinder-x than you do, you might want to try match.com?


JeepGurl49341 replies on 9/8/2013 4:00 pm:
You know, in the past I have tried a few of the vanilla sites, but they are not for me. If I were searching for a committed, monogamous ltr or more, I would still be there. What I want is Great, Exclusive Sex! Which I cannot achieve without a connection. Not too much to ask. Bottom line, the beauty of this site is that we are all searching for the same basic carnal thing. Sex... but we each have our own diverse element(s) that make the experience what it is for the individual(s). No one element of ANY profile being right or wrong. Swinging, couples, same sex, 3somes, cuckold, exclusivity, camming, only chatting or only looking.... To each their own is my attitude!

I will not and do not condemn anyone for their preferences. However, when ridiculous, I will call someone out who disrespects mine. I am fully aware of the length of my profile and honestly, I do not expect most to read it. Unless, of course, they share the same desire for Exclusivity and are serious when contacting me. Noting here, that my desire for one-on-one was intentionally put within the first two sentences of my profile to avoid people wasting their time!

Why this particular man missed that in the first two sentences, which EVERYONE reads, who knows??? I have no doubt in my mind that he was only looking for a "quick fuck". In no way, shape or form were one of his emails meant for me. Nothing personal at all, every one very vague and general... that spells form letter to me! In fact, after reading the emails, it seems that his continual invite, after no contact from me whatsoever for over a year, looked more like trying different tactics. Maybe I was just put off by his first email, I don't know? It is a possibility... I really don't think I'm wrong about him though.

It seems as if you have taken my blog quite personally. I do apologize if I have touched on something or said anything to offend you! That is certainly not my intention! I am just having fun and telling the story of me and my life. No different than any other blogger out here.

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