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Blogs > msharleygurl74 > Just me

Dreams  

msharleygurl74 49F
24 posts
1/27/2015 6:24 pm
Dreams

So...I have been having quite a few dreams lately about someone who I should NOT be having dreams about!!! Let's just say after having one of these dreams, going to work with a straight face and no blushing becomes difficult. I don't know why I keep dreaming about this person and I don't know if what I feel is real or just part of the dreams... I am so confused about this... Could this be because it's been so long since I have had someone in my life and I am just lonely? Or do I genuinely have feelings for this person...who happens to be married to a woman who is so the opposite of me and has ? There are times at work when he looks a me a certain way and I keep thinking "does he know?" That would make things really awkward to say the least if he figured out about how I feel about him (or think I feel about him)

I have talked to someone that I trust about these dreams and she thinks I keep having these dreams because he is in a superior role in my life and she thinks I like to be<b> dominated </font></b>(which I am not sure is correct)...could she be right? ....Like I said...very confusing because I will only end up hurt because I know that he does not feel this way about me...so maybe I am just letting my loneliness get the best of me since it has been over 5 years since the last time I had sex and over a year since I have had a "special someone" in my life (who turned out to be an a$$hole)

Any thoughts on how I should deal with this??? Or better yet...any thoughts on how to make the dreams stop???

reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
1/29/2015 11:36 am

 Hard to say. You may be longing for qualities he has, for example Height, body build, attitude, etc. Dreams can be good. Try this instead for dreaming. Think about how you would act if a man you wanted was talking to you. Ready yourself mentally for what he may say and how you would respond. When that guy comes into your life you should have you will be more ready.


NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
1/27/2015 7:33 pm

 Enjoy your dreams and work on your own reality away from these dreams. Find others to dream of and get out into the world. make friends here and out side of this place. Do not ever do anything at work. You do not want to get your passion mixed up with your paycheck


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