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Blow Him Away!!!  NEWS ALERT!! Guys love blowjobs! Blowjob, head, hummer, bj, fellatio. Whatever you might call it, guys love it and want it! Okay maybe that's not really news LoL! What might be news though is that if you think you give a pretty good blowjob, odds are you can be better at it. Honestly the worst blowjob any guy ever got was probably pretty fucking awesome! But is that what you want to be remembered for? "Oh yeah, that chick, she was awful at it but at least she did suck my dick" is so NOT something I would ever want someone to say about me. I would much rather hear "God damn baby you suck my cock so fucking good!" Talk about an ego booster! I mean for crying out loud people, we're not talking about rocket science here. Or are we? Honestly even I wasn't very much into giving them when I first started out. I didn't know what the hell I was doing, whether I was doing it right, or if I should be doing something different. And really there are a lot of guys out there that just don't give any feedback so it's hard to know if what you're doing is any good. Many years and lots and lots of practice later I think I'm actually pretty good at them now. At least the guys that I've given blowjobs to in the past few months see to indicate. No complaints, lots of eyes rolling back into the head, backs arching, toes curling, and a good amount of "Oh My Gawd!" types of statements lead me to believe I am doing the right things. And as if giving someone that kind of mind-blowing pleasure wasn't enough, I really also do like the thought of having someone at my complete and total mercy if even for just a short while. It's very empowering to make someone hard as a rock and weak in the knees. So what's the deal? How hard is it really to give a good blowjob? What do you need to do to go from giving a good blowjob to giving a fucking awesome blowjob? There are probably LOTS of things that go into it, but I'll start out with sharing some on the top 5 things that I think are keys to success. Tip 1 - Men like and need foreplay too Good foreplay doesn't have to go on for hours. Foreplay is really just the ability to tease and build arousal. Seriously if you ask them most guys will say they really just want to get hard and have you suck on their dick already, but giving a good blowjob starts with the right level of desire. Desire doesn't just happen - you have to build it up. Start with caressing outside their clothes. You might even give a few kisses or nibbles through their pants. I have yet to meet a guy that didn't just shudder with delight over me running my fingernails up and down along the length of his cock. That little move alone gets guys hard like nobody's business. I just love it and so do they. Before you ever even think about putting his dick in your mouth, you'll want to put your hands on it, over it, under it, around it, etc. Rub his legs, his stomach and chest, up and around the inside of his thighs, around to his butt, and anywhere else you like before ever directly touching his cock. You basically want him to be dying to stick his cock in your mouth before you ever do. Along these lines, also read my blog post Talk dirty to me. Dirty talk is very exciting and can be a great addition to both foreplay and the blowjob itself. Turn on his body and his mind to make the most of your time together. Tip 2 - A Wet Dick Lightly stroking a dry cock is a great way to get it hard. I can't however imagine any guy really liking a dry blowjob. Similar to actual intercourse you're going to have a much better time with moisture and getting his dick wet is step #1. Most guys will be leaking a little pre-cum when you start stroking their cock. Pre-cum is super slippery and awesome to play with. One of the things I really love to do it grab that cock and squeeze along its length from the base upwards to the tip to get even more to come out, and then play with it with my thumb and forefinger. Rub it around the head of his dick to get it even harder. Grip it between your fingers and play out a string of it to see how long you can get it. Visually this is awesome, and it feels fucking amazing too. Pre-cum is great to play with and a perfect starting point for wetness. Ultimately you're going to need more though. Of course the easiest thing at your disposal is good ol' saliva. Use it often and do so liberally. Making awesome noises like slurping and spitting to get his dick wet is probably one of the best things you can do as part of your blowjob. You want to make it SOUND like you are sucking dick. With blowjobs silence is most definitely NOT golden! Guys are pretty visual creatures, and watching you suck on his cock is likely one of the most awesome sights they will ever see, but sound is a huge turn on too so use it freely. One of the things that I was seriously surprised to find is that some guys really, really, and I mean REALLY love it when you spit on their dick. You may never spit on the street but seriously girls this is the perfect time for it. Extra bonus points for stringiness. Something about that string of spit from your mouth to their dick really drives some guys up the fucking walls. In addition to saliva, you can also use a variety of other products to get him wet like massage oils and lubes. Odds are though that you're probably not gonna want to eat that stuff, which you'll more than likely do while sucking his dick. One of the better alternatives I have heard of is coconut oil which has the same benefits as massage oil or lube but is actually edible. Thank you whole foods  .Tip 3 - Mix it up! Run your tongue up and down the front, back and sides of his penis. Use the tip of your tongue and sometimes flatten out your whole tongue like you were licking an ice cream cone. There really are very few areas that are off limits when it comes to sucking on his cock. From the very tip all the way to the base you should be giving every inch some attention in one way or another. Change the way you lick, how you suck, where you kiss. Sometimes go slow and sometimes go fast. Moan and groan, and make Mmmmmm noises like you might actually be enjoying yourself. Variety is the spice of life and everyone gets bored of the same thing over and over again. Granted a blowjob is primarily driven by oral action, but you're gonna want to use your fingers and hands to get the most out of the interaction. Your mouth and hands really should be working together here. Stroke his cock up and down while you're taking him into your mouth. Move your hands around his torso, up and over his legs and thighs, and grab the base of his cock like your fingers are a<b> cockring. </font></b>Play with the balls! Those poor guys get ignored all the time, and licking and sucking on them should be an integral part of every blowjob. Licking, massaging, sucking, spitting and even the occasional pulling is all good. Just be careful not to get too carried away  because those guys can get abused pretty easily. If you really want to push the limit, you can go further any maybe (just maybe!) play with the ass a little too. This is going to really depend on your partner and how much they are or aren't into ass play. I will say that I have yet to meet a guy that doesn't like me to play with the very base of the penis behind the balls and just above the butthole. How much farther you go will depend on what you're both comfortable with, but my advice is try it, you might both like it. Tip 4 - Deep throating and gagging Eventually you're going to want to deep throat his cock. This will most definitely take some practice before you can do it well without feeling like you are going to die. Personally I have found that just-ripe bananas are good for practice. They are just firm enough but just soft enough, and just about the right size to give you something good to practice on. Yes you can practice on popsicles and other similarly shaped things. It really doesn't matter - just practice. When deep throating, the ultimate goal is to get your lips as close to the base of his penis as possible and to have his dick hitting the back of your throat. For guys with a longer cock, this combination might not be possible, so the back of the throat is really the target point. Bonus points for figuring out how to either move your tongue around a little while in this position or for managing to somehow suck on his penis like you want to and are going to swallow it whole. I can pretty much guarantee you will drive your man wild with either of those two little moves while his cock is buried in your mouth. Gagging is an integral part of the allure for most deep throating. There is probably nothing a guy loves more that to hear you choking and gagging from his massive cock that could surely almost kill you!! Stop laughing. I am totally serious. "OMG my cock is so fucking hard and gigantic that I just might kill her!" Guys love that shit. Just saying. Whether you actually gag will depend entirely on how strong your gag reflex is. If you don't gag for whatever reason you can at least humor the guy and make the gagging noises. That works too. In any case, looking up into his eyes and coming up gasping for air when you just can't take it anymore and need to breathe is a serious turn on. If you can't take his entire length in your mouth, use your hands too. Grab the base of his penis and use your hand like it was an extension of your mouth. You can use this a bit to both control how much of his cock you take in as well to make sure that you're giving all of his cock some attention. Your hands and mouth should be moving up and down in unison with the same rhythm. Tip 5 - Swallowing Ok so seriously, you're gonna need to swallow. Taking in every drop of his manhood is just good manners. Anything else is really just a form of rejection. Now if you're really not able to do it for whatever reason - the taste, the texture, the general concept - there are of course other options at your disposal. You could hold it in your mouth and let it dribble back out onto his cock. You could drool it down your chin and onto your breasts where you then get to rub it around in what I am sure would be a most appreciative show of nipple play. Hell you can even just come right out and ask him to come all over your face or all over your body. I can think of any number of ways that could be hot and just as exciting as coming in your mouth. Alright, so granted not everyone enjoys giving a blowjob. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't try to be good at it. Fuck, go for broke and be amazing at it. While I can't guarantee you'll win any awards, your man will most certainly appreciate the effort. Guys, what do you think? Other tips or pieces of advice you would like to share with your blowjob giver? Believe me we are open to hearing anything and everything that will make this a more memorable and amazing experience for both of us! As always, if you've read this far, please comment and share your thoughts. Happy blowjobs to all!! |
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Great article, I think you pretty much have it covered!!
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Reading this article got my dick hard !!! Mercy........
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There's a real art to oral sex, fellatio and cunnilingus. Some seem to have clumsy brushstrokes and a limited palette. Others have the finesse to work wonders. Reading this I reckon you'd be the latter. warm xx
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Wonderful article and Yes the guys sure do like a good blow job too.. hugs V  Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Nice try but… Here are some points taken from an undisclosed (you know FriendFinder-x) book on the subject with a few comments “a personal reality check”  Tip 1: Finally a woman talking about man-foreplay but there are five senses and teasing is not one of them. Further, progression as presented contradicts complimentary and cohesive techniques. Tip 2: To borrow a phrase, “A soaking wet rooster rarely crows but it sure is a fascinating sensation” meaning know the intention (stimuli or stimulation). On the subject change, are these suggestions for a porn star or woman passionate of stimulation? Tip 3: Ever heard “Rhythm Technique”? Otherwise, is it a blowjob or a hand-job? There’s a big difference between these two independent methods which produce a wide variation of calculated results that are more important than “mixing it up”. Tip 4: Every woman can deep throat any sized rooster. The basic recommendations include open, relax and acceptance. Ask privately for more information as the target is not the back of the throat but more in the journey getting there. “Gagging” Again, are these suggestions for a porn star or a woman passionate in her desires to stimulate the man? Tip 5: Until the concept of swallowing is fully understood, communicate with your partner. First and foremost is the woman’s ability to accept the sudden burst of heated passion. And, just because a woman can’t, it doesn’t mean it’s necessary to halt oral stimuli at the very moment continuity is critical. The truth is men desire different techniques and presentations that range from porn star to passionate. Those on the edges of this spectrum may not necessarily enjoy opposite extremes while those in the middle could lack preference or truly enjoy the full range of technique. A hundred men will give you a hundred different descriptions of the best fellatio technique(s). Communicate with your partner as it’s a desire dynamically influenced by environmental conditions at a particular moment in time. Otherwise, the best fellatio will communicate the state of your mind and the passions that lay deep inside your heart. An alert man will sense and transmit those passions in return. Be mindfull of intention. Considered these definiation extracts and comments... Tease = to annoy persistently esp. in fun… While all in fun, teasing usually goes to far leaning more towards annoying. Tantalize = to tease or torment by presenting something desirable but keeping it out of reach… Tantalize is not the same as Tantric Whether oral its M2F, F2M or 69 be concious of your each others wants and needs including conditions and the environment, not your own or what you are guessing is the right approach. Communicate.
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I guess I'll have to try that deep throat thing. I didn't know they really liked it that much. Part of my foreplay is to use my finger like a cock ring. When you do that they all end up pretty huge!
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An A++ on your Master's Thesis! You covered almost everything. One other point, depending upon the guy, sharing his cum in a deep kiss can be very sexy too. Now, do you have part II, Cunnilingus 101?
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1 post 10/11/2013 7:25 pm |
gotta show my girl this xD
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10/11/2013 7:30 pm |
Thumbs up!
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10/11/2013 8:01 pm |
I approve of this article.
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pytimes you my friend sounds like you are in dire need of a blow job. And tease has about 15 definitions (not definiations) so nice to see you choosing the most negative one. boo!
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That's a nice article, but I think single rules are probably not as good as recognition that there's a lot of variety in what men like -- and some may like one thing on one day and something else another day. Personally, I like receiving oral mostly as a warm-up for intercourse -- but I love giving oral.
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I don't agree with "not everyone enjoys giving a blowjob. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't try to be good at it". The best BJs I've had (and contrary to popular opinion not all BJs are good BJs) have been with women who love to do it. No amount of "technique" can make up for a lack of desire.
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Wow! that has given me such licentious daydreams. You sound like a wonderful lover. I am not much on the gagging, that can't be enjoyable, I would rather sense that she is loving what she is doing. Thanks for a great post.
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You can use me as a practice dummy
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Great article.
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I don't mind if she swallows or not...
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10/12/2013 10:33 am |
Interesting article
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Now let the licks begin...and not stop
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gooooooood
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10/12/2013 2:19 pm |
I have had only a small number of partners during my life and blowjobs seem not high on their priorities. All over touching with both fingers and palms is common and the occasional hand stroke of the penis and balls is nice too. Only one actually did oral but she didnt take me very deep in her mouth at the times she did it. But she was a passionate woman who loved intercourse and full body touching. She also has beautiful breast size for my liking. We are no longer together alas! I still crave for a passionate blowjob to feel me ejaculate in her mouth as the ultimate..
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10/12/2013 2:22 pm |
Don't want to be a H&S kill joy, but it is probably best to suggest that when practicing gagging; it is best not to practice on something that can break and consequently suffocate you  No one wants their family trying to work out how you choked on a Popsicle/banana Great article thought and agree with it all! Must print out for future ladies 
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this is a fantastic article. covers it all and then cum! (I mean sum) dammit
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i didn't need to read it....My hubby says I'm a pro....
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Will be passing this one one!
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