Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service

Decisions....  

rm_makemepurr34 50F
263 posts
8/21/2018 2:12 am
Decisions....

We make decisions everyday and I do think this is truer than true. What do you think?



A wise girl knows her limits, a smart girl knows that she has none.

~Purr~


cockstar2016 38M
34 posts
9/15/2019 12:56 pm

That is spot on!


lickeyzsplit 61M
1516 posts
10/8/2018 9:06 am

I agree 100% We all are responsible for what happens in our lives and how the decisions we've made affected our lives for the good and the bad ! Fate gives us chance encounters with situations ....


crimson_paladin 50M

9/26/2018 7:57 pm

This applies to far more that just love and relationships. I often hear people use the phrases "if it is meant to be.... " and "it is what it is" These phrases irritate me to the core. Its not if it is meant to be, it is how willing are you to put in the effort to be. And it is not "it is what it is" It's what you choose to make it.


lookingforlustnu 50M
16 posts
8/26/2018 9:49 pm

it's a sign of the times where people think This Love thing or relationships in general are something of a mystic art.It's clearly not we all have a choice to make ever second of everyday.It's tough some days, its easy others.In the end it's about worth and partnership. If you can't wake up in the morning and love that person next to you,and go to bed loving them just the same.then there's a choice to make. Leave or work harder...

LookingForlustNU


rm_makemepurr34 50F
126 posts
8/21/2018 3:41 pm

Absolutely guys. I completely agree with both of you. U do make a conscious decision to stay with a person. To be true to them. To be faithful or to is a small indifference as an excuse to cheat. It's the decisions we make today that are our consequences for tomorrow.
Thank you both for your insights!

A wise girl knows her limits, a smart girl knows that she has none.

~Purr~


wanna4playU 56M  
265 posts
8/21/2018 12:53 pm

agreed, but to many people these days rate their partner based on bad shit, and fail to remember the good he/she does...just like in the news these days, everything is based on bad. We expect easy and perfect in this world now, and when it's not we are to easily ready to jump ship.


pureromnce 58M
324 posts
8/21/2018 7:50 am

Completely Agree. That’s one of the biggest cop-outs ever.

Might as well just say “I am going to go do whatever I want, without consequences, while you wait right here hoping I’ll be back.... after all, if we’re meant to be, it’ll work out when I’m done running around.”

We do make choices about everything, including the ability to decide what kind of mood we want to be in (or how to deal with people).


Become a member to create a blog