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sex quantity vs quality.
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sex quantity vs quality. Ok so I have a friend who I usually debate things over he and I are very much different he is your typical male chauvinist I am man hear me roar type where as I'm more of a modern guy I guess you could say he'es a little bit country I'm a little bit rock n' roll. So recently me and a few friends including the said friend were talking about how thing people do don't surprise us much anymore. And somehow I end up them about a woman who in the checkout line at the store was very openly flirting with me. His response "did you bang her" I shook my head sadly and tried to explain his rationale that I knew nothing about this woman and his response was "she's obviously into you so you have an obligation to hit that". I then made some quip about why i wasn't taking relationship advice with someone who hasn't dated anyone steadily since high school. And his response was "its sex you need to get it whenever its possible and not worry about the aftermath. this then basically caused our circle of friends to all break out in debate over what's better the endless steam of meaningless sex with no attachment, or the sex that has feeling, emotion, and usually is accompanied by dinner, dating,<b> meeting friends </font></b>and family and repeat performances. My friend Raff seems totally happy with no attachments. He can look at, and do whomever happens to cross his fancy whenever he wants, he doesn't have to check in with anyone or coordinate schedules with anyone or do anything for anyone if he doesn't want to. He likes having that freedom I suppose. And he loves bragging about how many women he has slept with. Me personally I feel kind of sad for him though I don't know if he'es ever been in any sort of serious relationship or if he would even know what to do if one hit him in the face. He enjoys the as he puts it "banging the bitches and then sending them on their way, his words not mine. I've been there though and you never know what your getting you might have a totally mind blowing session, or your might totally have one that fizzles because you have no chemistry or connection in the bedroom. But he es happy with the endless string of bed partners and luckily we live in an area in which he has a wide pool of potential partners to choose from. Me personally I love the sex with feeling, emotion, and attachment. The kind that is so hot that it almost melts the paint off the walls. The kind usually preceded by some intense foreplay and then accompanied by cuddling, snuggling, and sharing. I love learning about my partners and knowing what makes her tick and knowing where and when to kiss or nibble or lick to just curl her toes or make her scream and crush my head between her legs. I love meeting her friends and family and learning all about their dynamics. I love seeing her smile in the morning or anytime and knowing that something I did or said put that their. I could go on and on and on about all the things I love, but I don't know if you have time to read all that. For me though it all comes back to wanting to have amazing, mind blowing, earth shattering sex and foreplay EVERY time. I guess in the end it comes down to what each of us wants out of our sexual encounters. So what's your preference do you prefer quantity or quality? |
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