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Safe tips for women looking outside ....to have a peace of mind
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Safe tips for women looking outside ....to have a peace of mind Fast forward to the 21st century, where women are now allowed to be tough, to say NO, to speak their mind, to become CEO's and to enjoy love makin. Women have become more assertive and in tune to their needs, wants and desires. Its all about being smart!! think out of the box, May be you should try once... May be you have had some bad experiences before!! Here are some tips .... These simple tips can help u have a peace of mind !! Even the craftiest of women may show signs of extracurricular activity or unusual behavior ..It goes without saying that there are more obvious signs that you are looking outside, like staying out late and being dodgy about ur whereabouts or phone calls. Don't use your phn for texting. Lot of guys have a tendency to check a girl's phn for suspicious activity so you keep contacts to computer mmails, which can be more easily protected and hidden from view. You are at greater risk than ever of having a badly timed txt ruin your relationship, when it pops up. If you are smart, you would have another mobil with a sim at work, totally separate from your personal mobil. And that applies to email ids as well!! Any of the scenarios below may ring a bell to him !!=== Have you been getting more private calls lately? Do you leave the room to talk on the ph more than before? Any change in ph calls including frequency of calls, time of day, tone of voice or a change in txting habits could all signify that you are looking outside.When u talk, do u drop volume or suddenly sound as flirtatious as u did when you were first dating? Do you appear spending more time with your girlfriends than in the past? Are there many evenings out with the girls, when there were almost none just a short while ago? If you were not socializing with your friends with the same frequency thatu r now, that is a sign. If u are doing different things than u did with the girls in the past (e.g., they always went to the movies, but now u r going out dancing), that is a good indication that all is not what it seems. Have u stopped making eye contact when answering questions about where u have been and what u have been doing? Do u avoid looking him straight in the eye, when that was not an issue before? Do u make love less often than usual? Are yu asking for things you never did before or teaching him new tricks? Any extreme variances in love behavior are possible indications that there is a new influence in your life. Meet the friend on weekdays, it is much easier to meet on weekdays, when your guy is too pre-occupied with work. Don't tell anyone your addr. In fact, it's kind of common sense to not give out your addr to anyone you don't know intimately (no, the other "intimately"), because there are plenty of crazy men out there who will show up unannounced at your door with a skinned rabbit in hand. Call your guys by the same name as your partner, so you don't end up accidentally uttering the wrong one to the wrong guy in the throes of passion Are u trying extremely hard to please him by making his favorite meals every evening? You dress differently.. This can be an obvious sign if a drastic change was made overnight. If it was a progressive shift, he may not have noticed anything out of the ordinary. You are overly defensive. He asks you a simple question like "What did you do today?" and suddenly u r tripping out. If u appear edgy when he asks you insignificant questions about ur day and then u accuse him of being controlling or nagging, this could be a sign that u hv something else cooking. Are you suddenly encouraging his night out with the boys and cleaning his place when u hv never done it before? Making new friends can be a good thing, unless u r not introducing any of them to him. And if u won't reveal where u're going or give him vague details, then these so-called "friends" are something he will be concerned about. Yu reveal too much....U tell him all the details of night out with ur friends, including what u ate, who was there and who said what. This is all information you probably wouldn't care about on any other day; he may even wonder why you are telling him all this trivial stuff. You initiate strange conversations... Do not ask hypothetical questions like "What do you think of people who have affairs?" or start telling about a "friend" who is looking outside her boyfriend. If you follow simple tips, the nerve wrecking experience, of being caught wouldnt arise anyway.. Do u go home freshly showered, when in the past you did not shower during th day?Do you seem to be going to the gym more often than u used to?Do u smell of different cologne, one that is more masculine than his? Now lets come to the fun part .................................. Once you have ascertained why you are looking outside you have to decide on the right partner. don't get a lullaby<b> singing </font></b>boy with dreamy eyes when all you want is bootie calls and vice-versa. Getting that wrong defeats the purpose. You want someone who has as much to lose as you do. Ideally another married person would be the business. And a separated person too would suffice, as the chances are that he will be mature. May be you should meet the guy at his workplace, it will be comfortable for both. Avoid all advances -- and there will be many of those -- from men who are friends with your him. Now, cover your tracks. Don't take him to places where you are likely to be seen, especially places where your hubby frequents. In fact if you can avoid being seen in public , the better. Adding to that, always be paranoid. Be a stickler for detail. Make sure that your story checks out all the time. If you arrange for a date, make sure that you will not be back home for dinner and that you have a very strong alibi. Discretion is the most important tool. And don't get too confident. A lot of women end up being known because they take a lot for granted and so they become a bit too reckless. Do not call your date from your home ph. Call him from the office. And if you are going to call him from your ph, do not save his number. Commit it to memory and delete it from your call records. If you can, make sure you switch off your ph at night. If you can't, tell your friend he absolutely is not allowed to call you after hours . Its always better if you have a separate mobil & SIM If you are going to use mmaiils, create a separate account. Gmmmaaail, Yaaahaoo and whole lot of other are free.It just takes 5 mins, to create a new acct and you have a peace of mind !! Make sure they are not your friends on Fbk or lkn and there must be absolutely no communication on the social network. Unless you create a separate acct where you have a separate life. You can't afford to take the risk. The most important of the lot is to make sure that you don't change. You make sure that your hubby still gets what he needs. Most women who look outside end up acting cold and indifferent to their hubbies. If you stop giving him attention then your relationship is going disappearing down the sewer.These are some of the basics one should follow and others you will learn the fly. If you can get these right then you can be as sleazy as you like. |
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