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Give me a woman's point of view on adult women screwing aged boys
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329 posts 3/15/2014 7:50 pm |
would you reverse that? would you let your buddy be with your teenage daughter? I was way too young he was way too old and I didn't realize how much it affected me till years later 
bushmaster34304 replies on 3/17/2014 5:41 pm:
Not knowing how much difference there was in your ages or how he did what he did, what he used to either coerce or seduce you makes it hard to discern how he treated you....however, no matter what the circumstances in your case it is apparent that you were harmed by it. That means that it was wrong, period!
In my case(and in my defense)I knew that my son was not a virgin at the time(he was banging his 16 year old girlfriend)and I knew that my friend's wife would be sweet, kind and loving to him. And, all she did was let him know that she was available to him....he jumped at the chance!
If it were my daughter? First off, I don't have a buddy that could qualify for marrying my daughter, much less seducing her! With that being said, my daughter was a very level headed, mature young lady by the time she was sixteen. She and I had conversations about the subject from the time she was 13 or 14. She knew my feelings about how sex complicated relationships and she knew, because I stressed it over and over, that boys will tell any kind of a lie to get a gal to screw. She knew that it had to be because SHE wanted it, and understood how careful she had to be in selecting who, when and where to have sex. She is now older than your profile age, married with two daughters of her own. I know when, where and with whom she had her first sexual experience because she quietly informed me of it(about 2 years after she did it) just before she went off to college.
I can't say that I was overjoyed, but neither was I surprised by the revelation.
Do you think I was wrong in how I handled the situation with my son?
My thoughts at the time was how much I appreciated the lovely lady
who taught me the joys of sex, because it was a joy...although it can be very traumatic when done improperly. I despise abuse in any form, whether it be old on young, male on female or strong over weak...period!!
Anyway, thanks for reading and responding.
I some times refer to myself as The Dirty Old Man, not because I approve of dirty old men, but because my favorite niece sometimes kids me and calls me her favorite dirty old man and/or her Uncle Perv
She is in her 40's now but 15 years ago at her wedding she confided to me that she wished that I had been the one to get her cherry instead of the teenaged jock she first spread for. I whispered back," I wish so too!" Every now and then, when we are dancing or in the pool together, I remind her that I ain't dead yet! She seems to get a kick out of it and in letting me know that she might just take me up on it someday! She better hurry!
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8831 posts 8/5/2013 10:47 am |
Usually these sorts of things come out either because the boy brags to his friends, the woman is screwing multiple boys (as in a party situation) and someone gets jealous. There have been a couple of cases where the couple was caught in the act by someone.
Regardless of whether the male or female is the older party, I always think these situations are wrong and I'm glad that more of these woman are being prosecuted and it's not being taken as a joke or something innocent.
But that's my $2.54
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