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Blogs > rm_debluvz2fck > Another Whisper In The Dark

Ignorance is Bliss (or Why the Men Here are so Happy)  

rm_debluvz2fck 55F
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12/31/2013 4:20 pm
Ignorance is Bliss (or Why the Men Here are so Happy)

I try to stay positive, but some of my experiences here are bordering on ludicrous. I had examples that just required sharing.

I have met a number of men off of this website. Most haven't been worth staying in contact with, and there is only one who I actively enjoy talking with, have met, and enjoy seeing. The others have not satisfied me in our brief encounters. Interestingly enough, they will pop up.

Tonight, someone who hasn't spoken to me in months caught me on my<b> yahoo </font></b>instant messenger. He wanted to ask me a question and proceeded to tell me it was really bad. I told him to go ahead and ask and was rewarded with a novel question. He wanted to drop by for oral only (him only to receive), so he didn't go out tonight with a loaded gun. I wished him good luck finding a woman who would do that for him without expecting something in return. He went so far as to ask me if that meant no. I sent a line to the effect that he'd never done anything to earn that from me. He wasn't the asshole that he suggested he might be for asking the question, but why would I sexually satisfy a man who wasn't sexually satisfying me? He was more of a hemorrhoid, and he was disposed of appropriately.

Another man talked with me eons ago, or more aptly months ago, met me once, didn't say a word for over a month, but I met him again. Both meetings were adequate but not the regularity I have always explained that I am seeking. Fine to fill in the gaps, but nothing to return to after yet another drought. But he popped back up again after no contact for months and expected to just drop by again. I'm not interested and always come up with something else that I'll be doing when he suggests another meeting. I do happen to have a life and usually prefer to sleep by a particular hour, so none of the off putting has been lies. But why would anyone want to meet someone once every two or three months for a few minutes? I don't know how to classify that sort of annoyance beyond gadfly. I haven't pointedly told him that I'm not interested anymore, but he should get the idea soon enough.

I was more straightforward with the first one than the second, but I feel I have been fair. Just thought I would share.

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