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What is on your mind  

porterpiper1 57F
209 posts
2/5/2016 3:02 pm
What is on your mind


I been reading blogs for quite awhile on here, I have enjoyed them. I think people on here are very creative in their thinking and writing. But I was wonder about what we are really looking for on this site. I was thinking about myself, What do I really want .I am not looking for a perfect lover or perfect man,I am not looking for the movie star look, I am looking for someone to be honest with themselves as well being honest with me. Someone who can be wild and crazy sometimes and someone who can be passionate. Sometimes I want the<b> quickie </font></b>and other times I want to be made love to. I know there are men in my AREA who fit that, I know relationships can be hard and hurtful. So we settle for what ever we can get. I feel like that was fun times when I was a lot younger but now that I am older my thoughts and feelings have change. I don't want a different lover every night or other night or weekend, Those who do that is your likes and there isn't anything wrong with that. But if I could find that one who can be like having a different lover every time we have sex that would be great. And I know most men can do that, Maybe a have a void in my life sense my are grown and move away, I have more time to really think about my sex life now. I have focus more on it. I know there are others out there who feel like I do. the internet has taken us away from meeting people the way we use to. But we are still the same just more to play with and have a larger range to venture with. thanks for reading, I value your comments. have a great day.

CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
2/6/2016 4:21 am

Well, damn....

I am a perfect lover, i am a perfect man and i look like a movie star, but you're not looking for that.

I had to change my real name already from Lance Mandingo to something a little more mundane... i even have to wear sports underwear to keep my immensly large penis from flippity flopping in my leather pants.

I still wear billowy pirate shirts though in public.

Sorry, what was the question again?


porterpiper1 replies on 2/7/2016 12:42 am:
you do have that movie star look baby, love that smile

submokey 69M/62F
10383 posts
2/6/2016 3:26 am

I have always been a adventurer, reckless at times, and have lived a full life.
I came here in a dark time, seeking escape. My past is, how you say, "checkered", with some regrets. Spent a great deal of time (25 years or so) trying to be at peace with that past.
Found I enjoyed blogging, have always been a writer. We, as a couple, had some fun along the way, too, but was only fun.


Romance her heart, tease her body, enjoy the company shared in bed n out! Treasure every moment spent together, in good times n bad!
Cum visit my blog, you're always welcum! submokey Become a watcher!
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flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
2/5/2016 3:23 pm

Despite tryign to sell this as a hookup site, I think many of the grown up members end up here after having lived and learned through life. Sure, there will be those who need to go through a period of sowing wild oats, but the rest of us are like you, putting the childish things behind us. we grow older, our values and wants and needs change.

You're not alone in wanting someone special rather than bed hopping for the sake of it, and the maturity in a partner to equal our own.


porterpiper1 replies on 2/6/2016 12:21 am:
Thank for your comment, just having sex is ok for the moment but you do miss the feeling of just being held or caress or waking up to someone you care about. Some think because we are on here we just want sex from anyone, The vanilla dating sites get the same thing from members, It just sugar coated. People go on there for the same reason we are on here. Either way you are going to get some of your wants and needs on either site. But we get to get naked on here lolololol

love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
2/5/2016 3:22 pm

What's on my mind is wanting 2 get laid.


porterpiper1 replies on 2/6/2016 12:23 am:
thanks for your comment, yeah I think most of us want that too and it is on our mind but as the song say " you can't always get what you" but sometimes you get what you need" I hope you get laid.

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