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How would you like to date?  

rm_pandedaddy 63M
7 posts
9/8/2013 10:07 pm
How would you like to date?


check this out and let me know what you prefer to do with a guy like me http://FriendFinder-x.com=rel&dom=yah_life&src=syn&con=blog_marieclaire&mag=mar#slide-1
.. would like to date a girl with imagination

LadyLuck2 67F  
9091 posts
9/8/2013 11:18 pm

You need to work on your blogging. The link is not good.

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones


rm_pandedaddy 63M
10 posts
9/15/2013 12:15 pm

Thank you for your feedback LadyLuck. I'm impressed that you actually visited my profile and totally grateful for sharing your thoughts. Yeah, you're right.. I'm not a blogger at all.. just used this facility to share some info I liked.. would you be so kind as to tell me what is wrong with the link? I just cut and pasted it from another site.. thought it would be a good reference.


rm_pandedaddy 63M
10 posts
3/21/2014 3:33 am

Modern Romance: The New Rules of Dating

It’s time to face the facts: The dating tips your mother gave you have changed a bit. And by a bit, we mean that you no longer have to rely on the guy to make all the moves. We talked to a relationship expert about what twist modern times have put on the old rules of dating. A few of the dating rules still apply, but have slight modifications. Read on to find out which rules are bust, and which are a must.

By Rebecca Boneschans (on Google+)

The Pick Up
It’s no longer necessary for men to pick up women at their homes. This was largely appropriate in times when women lived at home with their parents and they knew exactly who was coming to their door. In fact, women can pick up men. But, in today’s era of digital dating, it’s best to keep your address private. Online and mobile dating has made it possible for you to connect with more people, but it also creates a bigger pool of potential creepers. When meeting face-to-face, April Masini, a relationship and dating advice columnist and author, suggests a rendezvous point.

“Meet him somewhere until you get to know him better,” Masini says. “It’s perfectly good etiquette for you to meet your date for the first, second, and third dates.”

He Says, She Says
Texting, emailing, and social networks must now be factored into communication efforts. But don’t rely only on these modes of communication. It could lead to the wrong impression.

“Texting is what you do to save time,” Masini says. “Relegating a date to the same method you use to get low bank balances is insulting. The same goes with Facebook. I hear a lot of younger people using Facebook to do what they should be doing in person when it comes to romance and dating.”

The idea is to use the different ways to reach out as a starting point, but definitely don’t use it as the only way to reach out. Do use it to send clean and flirty conversations. If you’re comfortable enough with adding a new date to your personal networking sites, then more power to you. Just don’t fret over every single detail of their online life without having conversations with them in person.

Doing the Deed
The "no sex on the first date" rule still applies—unless, of course, you’re only looking to hook up. If that’s the case, don’t expect something deep and meaningful to develop from a one-night stand. Masini says women tend to think sex is more than what it is.

“The bottom line is he was ready and you were willing,” Masini says. “Sex doesn’t mean the same thing to men that it does to women, so don’t trick yourself into thinking that sex on the first date means he likes you.”

This old—yet effective—rule gives you the chance to really get to know each other. Take the first few dates, or even months, getting to know each other on a deeper level. That emotional connection will make the sex all that much more explosive down the road.

Go Exploring
In a nation that is a cesspool of different cultures, races, and ethnicities, the possibilities within your dating pool are exponential. But, if that’s not the way you work, don’t break away from your core values. The key to a successful relationship, or having a fun date, is to find compatibility within your own limits.

“There is more competition today than ever before so you’d be crazy not to explore outside your traditional racial, religious, and ethnic group,” says Masini. “Know where you’re open and where you’re not, and then leverage those openings so you can explore your options in dating.”

So, if you’re not into dating someone whose values are significantly different than yours, look for someone who expands your lifestyle experience by taking you to a fun vacation spot or trying new foods.

Opposites Attract (or Not)
Just because magnets stick to each other doesn’t mean you and a potential date will too. If you’re looking for someone you can grow with in a relationship, pick a partner with interests similar to your own. This will alleviate any tensions regarding activities, parties, and people you interact with.

“Opposites are fun in the short run,” Masini says, “but those with more likes than differences will be more successful.”

Young at Heart
Toss aside the rule that dating outside your age bracket is forbidden. Men are dating younger women, because, well, they’ve done it for centuries. Women have followed suit and are dating younger men because of the vitality they give the relationship. It’s fun and keeps things interesting. Your experiences and the way you live should really determine the quality of a date, not the year on their birth certificate. One caveat: No one younger than 18, please.

April Masini is the author of two self-published books on dating, Date Out of Your League and Think & Date Like a Man. She regularly answers readers' questions on dating on her site AskApril.


rm_pandedaddy 63M
10 posts
3/21/2014 3:47 am

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rm_pandedaddy 63M
10 posts
3/21/2014 3:55 am

5 Top Tips for Expert Analingus (aka Rimming, Salad Tossing, Butt Eating)
By Sam Phillips in LAWEEKLY, Mon, Apr 16, 2012 at 10:06 AM

Open wide!

I love eating out assholes.
Literally, I'm referring to the man's most precious posterior pucker, and not figuratively to his piss-poor personality trait.

For those of you who get an instant hard-on at the thought of me sucking on your starfish, I should note that I'm not into licking just any person's anus. It's got to be attached to a guy I like, who has recently showered and smells like there's a bar of Irish Spring soap up his ass.

The act of analingus, commonly referred to as 'rimming,' or 'tossing the salad,' involves contact between the mouth, lips or tongue of one person, and the anus or perineum (space between the ass and genitals) of another. It is practiced privately by all sexual orientations and genders, but some still consider it to be taboo, dirty or even homoerotic, so it's rarely discussed openly or admitted to in public.
That is, until now.

Here are the facts: The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's 2011 National Health Statistics study showed that among adults aged 25-44, about 98 percent of women and 97 percent of men have had vaginal intercourse, 89 percent of women and 90 percent of men have had oral sex, and 36 percent of women and 44 percent of men have had anal sex. That means one out of every three gals and almost half of the guys polled say they enjoy playing with their partners' poopers.

Cop a squat, boys.

Some of you reading this may wince at the thought of performing oral-anal sex, but I am here to tell the ladies that the lads secretly love (and deem you a keeper) when your tongue accidentally grazes their butthole while you're giving them head.
Stimulating your dude's sphincter will make his knob throb as the abundance of tiny nerve endings in the anus and surrounding tissues shoot pleasure sensations through his penis with your every lick and nibble.

Girls: If your backside has yet to experience a soft warm mouth lovingly tease and probe it, put that on your bucket list of to-do's before you die. If you are already a fan of the anal arts, then you have discovered how great it is to have your ass eaten as foreplay to getting it fucked.
For those interested in exploring analingus further, here is a practical guide to help you master the most intimate and unconditional bonding sex act shared between two people.

Hygiene and Safety
1. Clean out your ass. It is important to shower before getting your can canoodled. Stick a wet finger into your anus to eliminate fecal remnants from your pucker, or you can use an enema for a thorough rectal rinsing.
2. Shave that butt hole. Even if you think you don't have any hair back there, trust me there's the one stray that got away. Having a smooth posterior heightens your sphincter's sensitivity to touch.
3. Use a dental dam. It's important to have a protective layer between the anus and mouth so as not to spread infection, intestinal parasites, bacteria, viruses or diseases from one orifice to another. You can improvise by using an un-lubricated condom, latex glove or even plastic wrap cut into large squares.
4. Do not double dip. Don't ever put anything that's been in a behind into (or too close to) a vagina without sterilizing it. You can transfer dangerous bacteria and micro-organisms that can cause infections such as vaginitis and cystitis.
5. Rinse your mouth. If you didn't use oral protection, make sure you swish with mouthwash or antiseptic afterwards to sanitize the area. Plus, no one wants ass-breath.

Tips for the Giver
1. Use your breath. Blow warm air onto the anus and the skin surrounding it, or just hover above and breathe against it.
2. Use your tongue. Lay it flat to lick, flick, rub and push against the general backside region, or you can make it stiff and hard to penetrate, probe, tap and trace the anal rim.
3. Use your lips. Kiss and suck the asshole, taint, inner thighs, crack of the ass, buttocks, lower back and the back of the legs.
4. Use your fingers and hands. Probe the rectum and pull apart the butt cheeks. You also can reach around from behind and fondle the front genitals.
5. Use your teeth. As long as you are only doing little nibbles or gentle love bites -- not hard chomps.
6. Use your toys. Butt plugs, dildos and dicks can be inserted in the rectum to help stimulate the male prostate and intensify female pelvic orgasms.

BONUS: Positions for the Receiver
1. Sit on your partners face.
2. Entwine yourself in a 69.
3. Lay face down with pillows under your hips, elevating them off the bed.
4. Get on all fours, arch your back, spread your knees and ass cheeks apart.
5. Lie on your back with a pillow under your ass, lifting it up in the air.
6. Lie on your back, pulling your ankles to your ears, and expose your hole.
7. Stand facing the wall, or bend from your waist, with your legs spread wide.
8. Suspending yourself upside down, open your legs in a V formation.


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