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Sex Toys  

khuXBFXM8u 62M
6260 posts
1/28/2014 11:46 am
Sex Toys



Ok, we got the bullet, G-spot toys, ben wa balls, and of course the Dildo which comes in all shapes, sizes, different materials, double ended, not to mention models fashioned after some porn actors, and tons more. Then you have the machines, those designed for grinding, the Sybian with all it's varied attachments, the orgasm ball, and on and on. Bring any of these objects up, in a social conversation with close friends and even strangers and few would be offended or bashful about discussing.



If I were to mentioned love dolls or a synthetic pussy, I’m sure there will be more than a few people running the other direction. The general societal connotation of males, who use sex toys, is they are somehow deviant. I was reading an article this morning, which addressed this issue, females using sex toys OK, guys who use sex toys are not. Another article claims the world most successful sex toy is the Fleshlight polymer Vagina; did you know this?



Why, as supposedly sexually liberated adults are we not able to normalize our opinion about male toy like the Fleshlight, like we have with dildos or vibrators?

What’s up with that? Your thoughts please!


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schothot69 54F  
299 posts
1/28/2014 12:24 pm

What’s up with that? Honestly I have no idea. I've seen some truly amazing videos of guys using the fleshlight and think it is quite possibly one of the most erotic things I have ever seen. Perhaps one of the things that people don't understand (including myself) is how they are cleaned well, so there is a little mystery and negativity about how clean a toy like that might be.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
1/28/2014 1:15 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks Kinky, from what I have read male toys just aren't as accepted. When I think of comedians making light of sex toys, males sex toys are always made fun of in a derogator sense.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
1/28/2014 1:18 pm

    Quoting schothot69:
    What’s up with that? Honestly I have no idea. I've seen some truly amazing videos of guys using the fleshlight and think it is quite possibly one of the most erotic things I have ever seen. Perhaps one of the things that people don't understand (including myself) is how they are cleaned well, so there is a little mystery and negativity about how clean a toy like that might be.
I just did a quick search on the web; according their website, to clean the Fleshlight all you need is hot running water, the hotter the better.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
1/28/2014 5:12 pm

-E', how frugal of you! Yes, there is that stigma of "no game" for the fellas.

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tigger678902 57F  
4545 posts
1/28/2014 5:41 pm

yes the negative connotation of a man who needs to use a device like this because he is not able to convince a woman to play, whereas there are far fewer complications both mental and physical health wise in just playing with toys and leaving other humans out of the equation,....not nearly as much fun though

as far as I'm concerned play with what works for you

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
1/28/2014 7:05 pm

I'm with you there! Give me the real thing, lips to kiss, nipples to lick and nibble, and ...

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
1/29/2014 7:24 am

    Quoting  :

Well, not exactly I think, but valid point.

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
1/29/2014 9:18 pm

Look out when you get into the bigger toys they sure can take you for an good ride hugs V



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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
1/30/2014 6:08 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Look out when you get into the bigger toys they sure can take you for an good ride hugs V


Yes V. Here is an interesting model I came across.

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