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HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
12/12/2021 11:14 am



Hi and welcome to the blogs

30 minutes, tops, unless I hear from them first

If I have to reach out, then that's a bone-kill, and that's a bad, bad thing


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
12/12/2021 11:55 am

If he wont reach out to me to let me know, if possible, not more than an hour.
His show of disrespect to me shows me he will be a bad fuck. Game over.


PumpkinSpice6 40F  
219 posts
12/12/2021 12:07 pm

I'm sorry that happened to you guys. I usually wait anywhere between 15-30 mins.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
12/12/2021 12:09 pm

What Hamo said....30 minutes unless they have called saying they will be late. Even with that....no more than an hour.

Completely disrespectful for them not to notify you. Bad vibes ~


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
12/12/2021 12:43 pm

If they can't make it to meet you. They should call at least. As far as long to wait for them ? I'm guessing an hour if they are hot.


SharonDW 69F
1 post
12/12/2021 12:50 pm

If I am running late, even if I think I’ll be five or 10 minutes late due to traffic, I always let the person know. If he can’t at least text me to tell me he’s running late but is still on his way, he is being disrespectful. I think 15-30 minutes is plenty, unless he reaches out. And it would probably be our last date.


Jake1ma69 40M
22 posts
12/12/2021 12:52 pm

I would wait about 30 mins unless they messaged me to say something happened but they were on their way. An hour is very nice of u.


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
12/12/2021 1:17 pm

I have been stood up more times than I can count and if they live close to the meeting spot, I would give them 30 minutes Tops.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
12/12/2021 1:44 pm

It depends on the situation if he has the courtesy to let me know he is running late then I will wait. But if it's longer than the estimated time he gives, then it's a no go. As things happen.

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AKinkyVegascpl 74M/70F
1 post
12/12/2021 1:46 pm

15 mins tops...... Things happen but experienced & real people will exchange phone numbers


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
12/12/2021 2:13 pm

If they show up, half an hour is longest I would wait.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
12/12/2021 3:56 pm

30 minutes max and would haaveto assess any type of message

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DeInSLC 59F
84 posts
12/12/2021 4:58 pm

I waited 30 minutes for a lunch date, then was about to order when he messaged me. I arrived early, had parked in front of the restaurant, and went inside. He arrived shortly after me, parked in the back of the restaurant, and was waiting in his vehicle. I had FriendFinder-x as a way of contacting him, and he had that and my cell number. He eventually sent me a text message right before he was going to leave, so we ended up having a late but wonderful lunch.

The moral of this experience: get contact info before setting out for a meeting, and make sure the other person knows where you will be waiting.


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
12/12/2021 5:53 pm

I always arrive early, If I didn't hear in 30 min, I would order and sit back and enjoy a meal in peace, unless there is some definite communication, I think 30 min for the scheduled time is enough.. But it has been a many year since I eat alone!!!!

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boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
12/12/2021 6:08 pm

You waited ten more minutes than I would have!!!!!!!


Fun4u3276 61M

12/12/2021 7:27 pm

15 minute absolutely the most I'd wait. If they see they are running late they should text or call; if not, I am out of there. Way too many fail to show. If they show up later than 15 and haven't communicated it is on them and I feel no guilt.


exsquid46 64M
640 posts
12/13/2021 12:24 am

Ms. Myshadows69,

If I do not get a call or text from a date stating how late they will be, I will wait about 15 to 30 minutes. If they call or text and tell me how late they will be, then I only wait 5 minutes after the new time.

I have had women that would keep delaying a meeting time by 10 or more minutes each time they called, and refuse to play that game again.

If I am running late I will always text and let them know how late I will be, however that has yet to happen.


SilverFoxMark66 69M
286 posts
12/13/2021 5:31 am

Hmm, travel round London is usually simple/ easy 'tho occasionally unexpected delays, so would insist on phone exchange beforehand & then msg & wait 30-60mins tops IF she replies & IF we had already confirmed some chemistry/ attraction etc; beyond London is rare for me, so again phone exchange & probably agree meet half way & wait 30mins tops, good question 'tho, thanks for asking


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