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Is Enjoying Sex a Bad Thing?  

fmbop38 50M
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10/3/2013 12:40 pm
Is Enjoying Sex a Bad Thing?




Greetings to my fellow blog readers! I've wanted to do this for quite a while, so here goes!

If found a blog on here from gal who is about my age (39), who is a self-proclaimed sex addict. She's a southern belle trophy wife married to a rich husband more than 25 years her senior. I enjoyed her writing a lot--which guy wouldn't when a bright woman expounds on her sexuality from every angle possible?

It seems guys and gals will always be curious about what makes the other gender tick sexually. This site has given me lots of opportunities to learn about you girls, both from exchanging messages and emails and encounters of the up close and personal variety.

It seems to me that there is a little hypocrisy towards the idea of sexual addiction on the part of guys vs. girls. I think there are both on here; whether I am a member of the sex addicts club is open for debate. My perception that a gal on here admitting she's addicted to sex would receive a rather positive reception, especially from us guys. A guy admitting he's a sex addict would probably cause some gals to run the other way, almost like he's a sex offender. Am I wrong?

I don't perceive myself as a sex addict. I enjoy it a lot, but won't allow it to destroy other aspects of my life like making a good living or caring for those I love like my family. I'm not a selfish person or lover. Addicts usually seem to crash and burn, losing almost everything they have. I'm open to others' perspective...

Erotica is one of my favorite forms of reading material. I've been addicted to reading since I was 5...all kinds of books--thrillers, non-fiction, biography, science fiction, you name it! RIP Tom Clancy and Vince Flynn, two of my favorite authors who died recently.

I've also written my share of erotic stories. The naughty, little boy side of me likes to turn on members of the fairer sex. It has also gotten me some personal auditions to be in one of my stories. Some of my writing comes from real events, others from pure fantasy. Here one that actually happened...

Michelle was 28 and led a very sheltered life in Fargo, ND, about 3 hours from where I live. She placed an ad on personals site that was very sexual, something about wanting wild sex with people of both genders. I saw it and chuckled, knowing she would get lots of pictures of guys naked from the waist down, etc. I wrote her an email that was teasing in its tone, basically saying she was silly to do such a thing. This started a conversation that lasted a few weeks, some of it quite sexual, but far from all. She was a fashion merchandiser, which meant she sold clothing and accessories in an expensive women's clothing store. She had a four year degree in this field.

I was struck by her desire and innocence, wasn't totally surprised when she finally admitted she was a virgin. That revelation turned me on more and we got even more sexual in our emails. Finally, she asked me to come to Fargo to "de-flower" her. We set up a dinner date and I picked her up at her house. She had her overnight bag out in her car and threw it in mine as we left. We went to a nice hotel that also had a good restaurant.

Michelle was a tall, slender blonde--6'1" with a 22 inch waist, nice to look at and surprisingly eager to leave her virginity behind. We had a nice dinner, getting acquainted and flirting as we ate. When you've shared sexual fantasies freely, an eagerness for the real thing comes naturally. I didn't want to be pushy; she was the one that said we'd better check into the room she'd reserved. We got into the room and she said she needed to get ready and disappeared into the bathroom. I turned on the TV and settled down to wait patiently.

In a few minutes, she walked by wearing only a black pair of panties and matching bra, got something from her bag and disappeared again into the bathroom. In a couple minutes she came out wearing only a flannel shirt, I could see her cute bottom peeking out underneath it. She was nervous, but very eager. I had her sit on the bed and I started to massage her neck and back to loosen her up. I reached around and unbuttoned the top couple buttons of her shirt, which gave me access to her soft, round breasts. I caressed them, squeezing her nipples which stiffened at my touch. I unbuttoned her shirt the rest of the way and slipped it off her shoulders, admiring her body. I learned down to kiss her shoulders and neck, then turned her around to see the rest of her beautiful body.

I opened the bed and had her lay on her back, I left the lamp on to enjoy the sight of her body, she didn't mind. Now, I took my clothes off, my hard cock stood at attention at the prospect of what was to happen. We kissed and I caressed her body all over. Her pussy was moist, but I took some apricot<b> flavored lube </font></b>to make my entry easier. I tried going down on her, but she was reluctant to have me lick her pussy. We now both knew it was time to enter her. My cock was rock hard and glistened with the lubricant. She eagerly spread her thighs for me; she wanted me inside her badly.

My cock head found her opening and I rubbed it up and down her slit to ready her for my entry. My head parted her lips and slowly sunk into her warm entrance. She didn't have a maidenhead, but was very tight, so much so that I had to use my hand to keep my cock inside her. I pushed gently into her; her pussy gave way to my invading cock a little at a time. Her tightness felt great, but our movements were a little clumsy. I got in a few inches, but decided to use some different techniques to capture more of her depths.

We slid into the scissors position, me holding one of her thighs between mine and sliding my cock head back into her. This freed my hands to caress her breasts and clit as I thrust deeper into her pussy. She moaned as I entered her deeper; she had no pain at all and the friction was sending waves of pleasure through both of us. I was now sliding in about six inches and her pussy was taking me nicely. I wanted to show her some different positions so I had her close her legs with me still inside her and roll over into the spoons position facing away from me. I stroked into her this way for a few minutes, and then rolled her onto her belly with my cock still in her. She was an eager student and enjoying my lessons. I pulled her up onto her knees and fucked her doggy style for a while. Her long legs rocked back into me as she thrust back onto my cock.

I decided to try eating her pussy again, that was one way I knew I could make her come and I thought she should experience an orgasm as part of her first time. This time she let me, the sexual bliss had her willing to try anything I wanted. I parted her slender thighs and brought my tongue into her. The lube, mixed with her juices, tasted fine and I eagerly explored the folds of her pussy lips. I parted her pussy and gazed at her clit, it was large and easy to get at. I slid my lips around it and sucked the whole area into my mouth, capturing her clit between my lips. I lashed my tongue over it as I held it and she responded by lifting her butt off the bed and pushing herself into my face. I alternated sucking her with releasing her clit and licking it fast and firm until I felt her tensing up for a climax. I decided to stimulate her another way and slid my finger into her pussy as I sucked her. This got her even hotter so I went to the next step; I coated my finger with some lube and her flowing juices and slid it into her tight ass. This was more than she could handle, she exploded with cries of pleasure. I kept up the stimulation looking for more climaxes on her part which came in a series of shudders through her body.

Now, it was my turn. I moved up over her missionary style and slid my cock into her. This time I slid in deeply without help and began long thrusts to get the full squeeze as I bottomed out inside her. She met my thrusts with her own, but eagerness aside, she lacked the timing it took to make me climb. I gently suggested that she hold still and let me do all the work, which she was happy to do. I now began to plow deep into her, I was getting all nine inches into her and my thrusts were driving her wild. Her face was flushed with passion as was mine.

She began to urge me on, she could feel me climbing as my cock began to throb as I approached my climax. She surprised me a little by urging me to "fuck that bitch", referring to her pussy. I eagerly complied, feeling my cock come closer and closer to exploding. I held back as long as I could until finally my release came. I buried my cock into her all the way and spurt into her depths. With each spasm of my cock, I thrust again until finally I lay on top of her with my cock slowly softening. We slid into each other's arms and soon fell asleep.

About two hours later, I awoke with a raging hard on, ready and eager to go again. I quickly found that she was as well and we had great middle-of-the-night sex. We also made love again the next morning; thus ended a very hot night that left both of us quite satisfied. Now for the silly part...when her parents found out what happened, they forbid her to see me again. At 28, she still lived with them and was dependent on them financially, so she complied.

Well, did you enjoy it? How could I make my writing better?

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