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wrong kind of FWB  

hfbrowneyegirl 53F
253 posts
10/13/2013 9:46 pm
wrong kind of FWB


This is it, My first blog...here we go

I didnt know this, but it seems that there is a "right"kind of FWB and a "wrong" kind. Recently, I was told that I was the "wrong" kind.
Let me try to explain....Over the last few months, I have created profiles on this as well as other "dating" sites. I have done the routine email/chat/text thingy and have actually met a few living breathing human beings from these sites. I decided i would take a bunny hop out of my comfort zone, as opposed to giant leap, and take a few photos of certain parts of my body and send them to folks. Being as how these folks are all men and i am a woman, the pics received fairly high praise. And then i got lazy. Instead of sending pics to individuals, i sent them as a "multi-receive" BIG BOO-BOO on my part. One of the men receiving the pics was very upset that it was part of a group send. So upset,infact, that he sent a text explaining that he didn't want to persue this "friendship" any longer, and i "wasn't the kind of FWB that he was looking for.....Repeat after me..."HUH?!?"
Maybe I am wrong, but it would seem that as i am getting a little more open to more kinky ideas, then maybe that is EXACTLY the kind of FWB you would like to have....

Any thoughts?

topherific 61M
5209 posts
10/26/2013 11:26 am

we aren't here looking for virgins! if someone is, they need to look elsewhere, this site is for big people sex! up-front cards on the table...hell, get your butt up ON the table, sex! and friendship but the sex hing is def. first ...cum out of your shell to me whenever you want! LUV naked women!


hfbrowneyegirl replies on 10/27/2013 12:25 am:
Love it! Thanks for the post

RobK2006 56M
5998 posts
10/14/2013 3:39 am

He should be happy you are enjoying yourself. Who ever heard of having a monogamous relationship on FriendFinder-x?


hfbrowneyegirl replies on 10/14/2013 9:42 am:
Thanks for posting That leads me too a future question, How many FWB is too many?

CaptainSpauldin9 52M
16 posts
10/13/2013 10:33 pm

People here tend to get pissed at the stupidest, littlest things and if you try to explain, well then, you're just making excuses! There are some unwritten rules of etiquette around here and I guess everybody is just supposed to know them naturally or something. But everybody is different I guess and what might turn one person on, might piss another person off.
Oh, almost forgot to answer your question (wouldn't want to piss you off), an FWB with kinky ideas is EXACTLY the kind of FWB that I would like to have

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hfbrowneyegirl replies on 10/14/2013 9:47 am:
I could understand him being upset,but 2 things: First off, we have yet to actually meet in person and second...he was upset because i had originally said that i wouldnt post a nude pic unless i had met someone. well excuse me for coming out of my shell! Thanks for the post!

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