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Blogs > KimberHaven > My Blog

Getting Emails  

KimberHaven 50T
80 posts
11/15/2013 5:40 am
Getting Emails
Hey boys....its Kimber again. I wanted to take a little time to explain how I perceive emails when i receive them. When a man writes me...I never treat him nasty...like sending him a response like "not intertested". You see...if a man takes time out of his day to write me.....wether he sends me a poem...or gentitalia pick and says lets hump......I consider it a gift and treat it as such. Let me explain. I never base my "interest" in a man by his pic or age or anything shallow. To me the makings of a man are so much more and its gonna take me time talking with him to learn who he is inside and at the end of the day thats all that matters. So in most cases I cannot not determine interest by a single email...and even if we are not compatible as a couple I may have found a good friend. I however never simply reject a man. That is damaging to someones self esteem and just cruel. I know rejection too well and would never be the cause of someone feeling like that. Now then...how about the guys who write me crude sexual emails or send me pics of their junk.....well I consider those gifts too. Im flattered that they found me attractive enough to write me. If a man writes me and says he wants to do me.. I consider that a compliment. I even treat such men nicely because damaging anothers self esteem or being mean does not make the world a better place and just because someone is disrespectful to you does not mean you need be in return. Afterall...you cannot complain about their behavior if you are guilty of the same via retaliation. We grow as people as long as we take the high road and get lost if we take the low road.
    Now I wont sit here and preach without saying that I have taken the low road many times in my life as well as on this site but as part of the human race I am continuing to develop as a person. I try and identify my wrongs so that I can make them right and get back on the right road to where i want to be at the end of the day when i look into the mirror. My message is simply treat every email you receive as a gift...if they are mean to you for no reason it is still a gift because it gives you a wonderful opportunity to take the high road and be kind so someone who wronged you and become a better person. 
Hotblonde4U2have 56F
660 posts
11/15/2013 5:49 am

 The best kinds of people are warm and kind,
They are always there and they never mind.
The best kinds of people smile and embrace,
They support you with strength and grace.

The best ..........


Stilllookin4ugrl 62M  
117 posts
7/23/2014 3:09 am

 I really enjoy sending you email messages and you always answer me and are really nice to me


tgurl_luver 76M
Ask me for a photo

1/10/2015 7:50 pm

 You can pretty well tell what kind of person someone is by the pictures and words they send to someone. It is refreshing to meet someone who takes the high road. took the time to watch your "questions vids" and learned a lot. Was rewarded with a friend request that was/is a cherished reward.


Black_Hills 52M
Ask me for a photo
193 posts
2/2/2016 2:28 pm

 Well written, you have such a good perspective!


Copregan 62M
2 posts
6/16/2016 4:05 am

 Kimber, you just make me smile,, do you have a twin or possibly a sister?


wittyhumor 47M
220 posts
7/1/2016 5:40 am

 I know it..

If, I, wanna, see dicks, then, i, go look, for those, pics. I don't mind good chat though....

I talk a lot here on site....

It's fun, sometimes, and, I, get off, on it, sometimes....

My only complaint about, it, that, its, not an interview for sexx, and people, sometimes, think, that it is....

It's fun still and I like it.....
Stuff said....

These comments and questions

Check outmy blog!!


mike09ab 73M
6 posts
4/2/2018 9:20 am

 I'm amazed at your compassion and love for people... and your ability to communicate that so clearly. Once again, pearls of wisdom.

Hm, pearls before swine perhaps?

Mike


Love, from rmichael


JerryhoneyU 71M

7/13/2018 3:58 pm

 nice go with the flow


6bradson1 51M

11/4/2020 11:26 am

 You are amazing and seem to be a real down to earth girl. Plus you are super hot.. thank you


tina_w8296 41F
48 posts
2/22/2021 1:58 pm

 Wow you are not only a beautiful looking woman Kimber but more importantly you are very beautiful on the inside. I am unable to view all mails as a gift so you are a much better and stronger person than I am. The ones that piss me off say "hey slut do you want to suck my cock enclosed with a dick pic. No class at all!
Stay strong.
kisses, Tina


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