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Why it is so difficult to find a woman when you are Transsexual  

rm_T_Liscious1 56T
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5/14/2014 12:46 pm
Why it is so difficult to find a woman when you are Transsexual

Why is it so difficult to find a woman on FriendFinder-x when you are Transsexual? That is a question that has been burning away at me since I rejoined this site over eight months ago, I think that the answer is more simplistic than I give it credit for, but it still gives me cause for wonderment on the issue. There are many natal females on here who claim to be interested in meeting with those like myself and other women, but never want to chat to you about anything, disregarding all the polite messages that we send. There are a few who do reply, but disappear after a few exchanges. The issue I have with them is they all want to have women as well, I am unique on here in the fact that I am post op and female, and also seeking only females, perfect match possibly? Perhaps not, they talk a good ideal, but fail to deliver any substance to it, creating a talking shop of endless possibilities and fantasies of what they would like to do with you, but not wanting to commit to anything that could lead to their fulfilment of those dreams, some of us are genuine here and wish to take things to a higher level, for the mutual pleasure of both parties, surely that is what an adult site format is supposed to follow somewhere down the line.
I think that most guys reading this post can empathise with me, as they will have experienced similar things from women on this site, as endless time wasting is the norm, true enough there are lots of fake female profiles, but there are enough on here who are real, yet very few actually do anything resembling adult activity on here.
This brings me back to my original question, simplistically put, there are no genuine women on here who are truly interested in Post OpTranssexuals, we don't have the extras that may be desirable from pre ops, and very few of those are interested in women, they talk a good deal about what it would be like to be with you or another woman, but dont deliver anything to make their so called fantasy and desires a reality.
Frustration is a way of life on FriendFinder-x, and acceptance of it from the outset of joining eases the effect of it, it therefore becomes a fantasy for us to find a woman, making the circle complete, incredible really, no one wins and no one loses, just stalemate xxx

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