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A Contrast in Infidelity
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A Contrast in Infidelity , infidelity represents the worst sort of betrayal in a relationship. I've seen the horrible impact of infidelity, in women I've met over the years. Cheaters deserve have their asses kicked the curb, then kicked some more. Yet, recent revelations have me a bit torn on the subject and how I view those commit adultery. A little mea culpa before I continue. I'll admit being unfaithful in my marriage. My wife's borderline personality disorder ensured that I was constantly made feel inadequate, so when a , very attractive woman found be everything my wife told I wasn't, I fell. went on for a month before my moral compass corrected my course, which point I ended . not asking for my behavior be excused; was wrong and I take full responsibility for it. Onward... I've previously shared some information about my father being a slime ball, but didn't mention a shocking piece of information he drunkenly shared a few years ago. It seems that he'd had an affair with a family friend for about a decade. Actually, he first divulged an affair and I correctly guessed with, which shocked him. Classify it how you will, but I was sleeping with her female offspring during a portion of that time period. In any case, it took me some time to not want to his ass. I mistakenly mentioned my affair, which he attempted equivocate with his own actions. I told him was no way they were similar; I cheated on my wife whereas he cheated on my . shouldn't shock anyone that he was panicked about my finding . As for contrition, you're better off searching for some of that in the Republican party. In the meantime, he was his usual standoffish self with my . He wasn't exactly Mr. Nurturing with either, as a . I learned not show emotion around him, or risk being ignored or even taunted. shouldn't be a shock that I was plagued with intimacy issues later in life, that prevented from having a healthy relationship, but that's another story. In any case, he dropped to low life status for , and it took a long time for me to even speak to him, without the words 'go yourself' being included. Of course, his encore performance was the selfish behavior that led fucking the lives of his entire family. Have I neglected share how he actually did my chances get back home Richmond? Oh, he thought he was having a couple of affairs with the scammers, one of whom he specifically sent $30k for an engagement ring. It should be no surprise they were using stock pictures of blondes (not all the one, because they could get away with it, him being drunk of his mind). Fast forward just after his brain surgery, when he checked himself of the rehab hospital because the food wasn't his liking, have return the hospital. I was on a well-deserved tirade about his selfishness my , which seemed trigger her own flood gates open. She told me about how he'd been controlling from when they started dating in . About how he attempted to separate her from her friends. She didn't have to tell how cold he'd been over the course of so many years, because that was obvious. Apparently, he even took pride that all his coworkers hated him. His pattern of doing whatever the he wanted was a theme in their marriage. My 's a bit of a drama queen, but knowing my father, everything she said rung true. Then, she dropped her own bomb; she'd had two long-term affairs, herself. My had cheated on my father, not once but twice. Considering my strong reaction the revelation my father had committed adultery, you'd expect the toward my . Except that's not what happened. After the shock wore off, I took emotional stock and found understanding, empathy, and a bit of pity. But the condemnation never came. She sought the love she wasn't getting home; a refuge from the hateful man she married. Ultimately, I thought 'good for you, Mom.' Since then, things have somewhat normalized and I avoid my father, when possible. Not always easy when the one has get him appointments and continue put the pieces back together on his finances. Neither party knows of the other's affairs, that aware of, and I plan to keep it that way. When I do spend time with him, I do my best to put all the shit in a box, and pretend it doesn't exist. He should consider himself lucky are neither cliffs nor apex predators in Kansas. God, this place sucks in new ways, every . This may sound like a piece on my father, and it may very well be. But it's all true and him anyway. Now, definitely get off my lawn. |
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If there was a problem, yo, I'll solve it. Check out my hook while DJ revolves it. Hadda lighten the mood somehow.
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What you can solve, you put in a box and ship to North Korea It is a great way to go, I am all for it. At least emotionally, I have done it with my first \8b in my life, but he comes back from time to time. Wish you more luck with it  Yes, I do understand your mom, we women have desires, we women also have needs and we need love to survive, like flowers need water and sunshine. It is interesting that you had for some time the same lover than you dad. Some women just love it when they can be with son and father at the same time. Did she use you both to satisfy a fantasy of hers? Just wondering Click on Virgin, if you want to know, how it was 4 me I love pussies and adore nice dicks
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Sounds like they were a match made in..... As long time relationships go on...people grow n change and in not the same time or direction. Your mom, sounds like she knew from the onset. Its all spilt milk tho...people have to move on and make the best of their lives. Even with the scars....yes ...even with the scars. Good luck ~~
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As we grow and learn, our views and opinions change. What once seemed abhorrent, now understandable. Many people liken a 'cheater' to a lower level of humanity. However, no one ever asks the circumstances. Men typically cheat for the sex. Women, however, have a myriad of different reasons. Most of which don't begin with sex. Good luck on your journey, and healing. *Smiles, kisses n hugz* ~Sports *Smiles, kisses n hugz* ~Sports
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In the last 7 years, I have fallen on my high horse on the topic of infidelity. I used to think there was no way it could ever be jusitfied and no way that anyone could ever do that to someone they loved. But I think it was a very narrow minded view. We all have to find our ways to cope. Some just find healthier mechanisms than others.
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