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Said the Walrus
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Said the Walrus "The time has come, the Walrus said, to speak of many things, of shoes and ships and sealing wax of cabbages and kings." Lewis Carroll Well, maybe not cabbages. I've been thinking lately trying to benefit from the better memories, the times when it was really special for both of us. Trying to look for the common factors, physical and emotional, to see if their were triggers or at least patterns. This personal little study covers a number of years and a number of women, all different, but in some key ways all alike. The most obvious thing leaped out without much analysis --- in every case the woman involved had a spectacular orgasm. So I didn't have to break out my deerstalker and magnifying glass to see my enjoyment was keyed to theirs. Whether that applies in reverse I don't know, but in each case they were grateful enough that I benefited copiously. Most of these had a certain degree of spontaneity to them. Even when we knew before hand we were going to do it we hadn't orchestrated or choreographed anything spectacular. Whatever the trigger was it occurred during the act and not before. Quite a few of the times came after a separation or time apart of some kind, and many were the first time we did something, which I wouldn't have thought. Location played some part --- the gondola of a hot air balloon over Paris, a lonely cabin for stranded skiers in a storm, a motel room after months apart, a back rub that got out of hand, a morning delight that ended up well into lunch, an intended<b> quickie </font></b>after a night at the theater or a party ... a spectacular waterfall in Languedoc, a hot tub at a B&B, bundled under a ton of covers during a power outage and ice storm ... But just as many happened in the bed, or den, kitchen, hallway, or started in the bath. I knew going in I was in love with the women involved in 90% of the cases. I still haven't drawn a conclusion I could base a working hypothesis on, but in every case at some early point a word was said, an action was taken, or something unexpected happened. More than a few were triggered by an unexpected early small orgasm --- a nibble on the ear sent her reeling, or a casual touch she wasn't expecting, and at least once a sneeze and an accident. In every case there was a moment when we both knew this had gone beyond the usual. A point when her orgasmic response escalated and something new or rare happened. The idea that great sex may depend on an accident or touch or response is a little disappointing. You can't really plan for that, and you can't duplicate an accident. You can plan really good sex, even extraordinary sex, but you can't program chemistry, biology, psychology, or pathology. You can't re-create those factors. But if you are lucky they happen more than once, and in between the sex can be outstanding. It's just magic takes a little more.   Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.  |
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