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Face to Face
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Face to Face  I came of age at the top of the Sexual Revolution, and promptly enlisted. Things were changing rapidly, almost hourly, and nothing as quickly as sexual mores. Sarah was only five years older than me, but when she was in college it was still the age of the sorority girl who let you get to second base, but then calmly, and with a few signs of disgust, jerked you off into a handful of tissues (often stuffed in her bra). By the time I got there they weren’t wearing a bra and the mouth had replaced the hand. There was still one major no no though, the ultimate taboo, one even many porn stars well into the 90‘s drew the line at --- don’t cum in her face. I was lucky that most of my partners liked the face job, but the most common thing you read of or heard discussed in regard to sex was don’t do it in her face. I’m not sure when that changed --- maybe when oral sex became casual instead of the more intimate act --- but at some point there was a sea change and women seemed to develop a certain pride at a face full of cum. I’ve mentioned before that Angelique and Sarah rubbed it in to face and breasts as a firmer (yes, they washed after). Today, and I’ll grant this site and a few others probably skewer any statistical study, women seem to take pride in earning a face full of the white stuff. I wonder if anyone here experienced that change in attitude personally, or remembers when it was the ultimate insult, virtually a violation of everything feminism stood for, if a man came in your face. Something fundamental changed. I have my own hypothesis that it has a bit to do with women squirting and ejaculating more commonly, but it’s only a semi formed idea on pretty shaky ground as yet. Have any of you observed the change or made it yourself? I know many of you will say you always found it erotic, but even you must have noticed a serious change in the way the act is viewed. Even some women who masturbate a man to an orgasm will bend down to take the majority in the face now. When did cum go from a necessary evil to be tolerated, to the main event for women, when did it go from disgusting to erotic and desirable?  Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.  |
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No doubt, but back when I knew several adult actresses well several of them absolutely refused facials on camera even if the were okay with anal and swallowing. For a time it was the ultimate taboo, even in porn. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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Well I haven't gone in for that change. I still think that if I am giving a blow job that I either love to swallow it or I don't mind being cum on my stomach or breasts but not my face. I also still don't like to be spit on. Different strokes for different folks? You like it, great! I don't. That's cool, too. Kitkat But I do recall when nice girls considered cum to be an icky by product of nasty male lust good only for making babies. It doesn't seem to be that way now with a good number, perhaps even a majority, of women. You say you are happy with it on breast or belly or in your mouth and that's still a major change from not all that many years ago. I don't get the spit thing either. I keep seeing them spitting in each others mouth in porn and can only think if I had done something like that half the women I've been with would have slapped me silly and walked out on me. I like unrestrained hot sex, but there are still limits. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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Well I haven't gone in for that change. I still think that if I am giving a blow job that I either love to swallow it or I don't mind being cum on my stomach or breasts but not my face. I also still don't like to be spit on. Different strokes for different folks? You like it, great! I don't. That's cool, too. Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Probably just pushed by the media. I knew quite a few women in the adult film industry in the eighties (I did film criticism --- porn and straight) and many drew the line at facials even if they allowed for anal, and one of the big complaints of the feminist movement about porn was the degrading facial money shot. Today feminists seem as turned on by it as others. I'm just curious when the change happened. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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I'm sure that accounts for some of it, but I've known women who didn't mind swallowing but didn't want it on their face. it was considered for many years demeaning to women, and somewhere along the way that changed in a big way until now more women than in the past find it very sexy to have it on their face and in their mouth. I know oral is now casual sex where once it was more intimate than intercourse, but this seems an area where women have made a major change in their outlook. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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Maybe in lieu of swallowing or spitting it out, the face is a compromise of sorts? Check out my blog -- A Godiva World
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