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A Feather Touch
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A Feather Touch  A great deal is made of women undressing for their partner, and recently more of men undressing for her, bur just as key, if not more so, is undressing each other. There are times she will tear your clothes off, but I don't recommend that for men. Women tend to spend more on clothes and have favorites and nothing is as big a buzz kill in the real world than her annoyed or worse because you ruined something in your haste. If she wants anything torn off she'll wear something she doesn't care about. It may look sexy in a film when they tear off her blouse and her pearls spill all over the floor, but in real life you'll send the rest of the night apologizing and hoping you don't miss picking up any of those pearls. Subtle works much better. Fumbling has some charm when a man is young, but not really much past thirty. Bra's are not such complex mechanisms that you can't undo them easily. I suggest you learn to do it one handed, and if possible with your left (if you are right dominant). They come off without a lot of resistance during a really good kiss when your other hand is busy. Not all panties are going to be as easy as the ones shown here, but generally once the elastic has slipped past her hips they will slither down with little encouragement. If possible I think it is sexier to remove the underwear while they are still dressed, however disheveled. Women often appreciate knowing they are in<b> skilled </font></b>hands. They may wonder where you picked up those skills, but usually the erotic nature of it will overcome that, Women aren't really into virgins much past twenty. All this varies couple to couple and case to case. If she protests in a serious tone stop. If you can't tell a no that is serious and a no that is halfhearted to help her keep her self image as a good girl you haven't been paying attention. A real 'don't' doesn't sound anything like a half hearted one. Women will let you know when to precede or when to be bolder. Even if they are panting for sex they still like to be seduced a bit when they aren't enjoying seducing you. Most women want a little effort put into getting to the main event. They want to know you value them and what they are doing for you. Like it or not the dynamic is that she is giving you something, not you her. The caveman looks fine in movies, and maybe if he is really attractive once in a while in life or if she likes domination, but there is nothing sexy about any kind of real force. That kind of thing is best agreed on and limits set well before anything happens. Communications is king there. Sex is as much psychological as physical. If you aren't on the same frequency as she is no part of the relationship is going to work. But learning a little finesse in helping her disrobe can make her not only hotter, but more secure. She likely doesn't expect you to be George Clooney, but she certainly wants more than an Orc from The Lord of the Rings. Ladies, do you like it when your partner undresses you, and guys, do you have any skills in this area. What is your favorite way for your partner to undress you?  Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.  |
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It's fun to draw the whole thing out, sensually removing her clothes as maddeningly slowly as possible. It's an act of seduction in itself, peeling away layer after layer, lingering, teasing, taunting ... though on more than a few occasions I've been shoved on my back on the bed, her clothes and mine flying because she has taken all she can. Which isn't a bad experience either. I may have a slight sadistic streak because I've been accused of extending foreplay to the point of torture. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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Me too. My second wife and I had a theater night, and because of the gown she wore she chose to wear panties and a bra --- which she usually went without. We came in late through the garage into the kitchen and I stopped her there and we went into a big kiss; While I was kissing her I unhooked her bra with my left hand while I slid her panties down over her hips so they slithered down her legs and she unconsciously stepped out of them. She went off to change and I picked them up and laid them on the back of a chair, assuming she would come back for them. She did comeback, asking me if she was going crazy because she could swear she had worn a bra and panties ... When she saw them draped over the back of the chair there was a very quiet moment, those green gray eyes flashed gray (not a good sign), then just before she smiled, she said somewhat resigned: "You've done that before." Luckily she had a great sense of humor or that night might have ended very differently. You have to go carefully with green eyed redheads. But it became a running joke for her to ask if she had worn a bra or if I had removed it without her noticing. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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