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The Masque  

rm_rakehell500 70M
843 posts
9/23/2014 3:51 pm

Last Read:
9/25/2014 4:17 pm

The Masque









For some reason a strap on is like putting on a mask for most women, They become playful and more sexually aggressive, they even tend to talk dirty even if they don't normally. After an initial shyness they take on a dominant role, and almost everyone I've been with gets carried away a bit.

I find it sexy to see the changes in her, and I admit I become submissive in a way I am not normally.

Have any of you noticed this? You can even see it like<b> amateur </font></b>pictures like those above, there is something that goes on in a Jekyll and Hyde way with a woman wearing a strap on penis, and the bigger the dick the more pronounced it is.

Of course not all women will do this, or want to, but the ones who do seem to quickly shed inhibitions and take on some typical male sexual attitudes that feel genuine and not role playing.




Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.



rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
9/25/2014 4:17 pm

    Quoting  :

It varies, and it is hardly a deal breaker, if there is one thing I've learned it is never to pressure anyone to do or try anything sexual they are uncomfortable with. If you do neither of you is going to have any fun.

In my case it was their idea.

I wasn't certain about this at first, but went with their nervous desire. In both cases they had initiated using a finger or two on me during sex and saw my response.

What I noticed was that they took on a more aggressive personality as soon as the thing was on them. They quickly seemed to get into it as soon as they knew they weren't hurting me, and as I said it is a rare time a man can orgasm without touching himself or his genitals being touched (not always, but it happens).

It was a once in a while thing when some sort of mood over came them, and they got more playful and a little kinky with it in ways I don't think they would have otherwise. Both came from strict religious backgrounds and even though they had overcome it to a great extent they were still a little gunshy of even mildly kinky so this seemed to loosen them up a bit.

They came up with this on their own though, I think because I was masculine enough they didn't fear I was going effeminate because I enjoyed it, It was less about dominance than about a new avenue of their sexual nature.

It's odd, but its a fairly profound experience for both in that you see sides of yourselves you hadn't been aware of. I have a little trouble letting go physically during sex because I'm built on big lines and overly conscious that if I go at it too hard I could easily hurt most women. It's my biggest --- and pretty much only --- sexual hang up.

They both really wanted me to let go the way they did, and I guess this seemed like a good way to get that result. I feel lucky they wanted me to feel what they got from me and to do for me what I did for them.

In any case it worked for us. I'm still too controlling of myself, but I let go more than I did, and I no longer hesitate to give up control to my partner.

But like I said I would never ask anyone to do anything she wasn't comfortable with --- it just isn't worth the loss of trust.



Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
9/24/2014 2:53 pm

    Quoting rm_GatorWoody:
    Put that thing away!; ...unless you are bringing your girlfriend over.
It's not for everyone, and certainly not if you have problems with the idea. It can be difficult for the guy to let go and trust that much, and no one is saying there isn't initial discomfort, but it is also remarkably freeing to women --- no one I've done this with has failed to be more open and aggressive even in regular sex after breaking this barrier (the mental one anyway) and I confess I became more open (everything is a double entendre with this subject)to letting my partner take the reins when that was what she wanted.

It's a bit of a shock to discover fairly young that women have minds just as dirty, that they are just as horny, and that they want you as perversely as you want them.



Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
9/24/2014 2:46 pm

    Quoting  :

Other than the mind game and the incredible number of nerve endings that quickly change from pain to pleasure the main reason for this is that it always seems to help her to become more open, sexual, and aggressive, and I suspect that's true with two women as well.

It's one of the few ways for some women to break some of our cultural taboos about how they are supposed to behave and think about sex roles.

And it's the only time I ever had an orgasm without being touched.



Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
9/24/2014 2:42 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    They can make sex so enjoyable done right.. Love them.. hugssssssss V
They break down a lot of barriers we all put up gender wise. I'll grant I was reluctant at first, but despite a little discomfort I saw both of us getting something more than just pleasure out of it.

Ironic that something stuck down there is such a mind trip.



Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/24/2014 8:37 am

They can make sex so enjoyable done right.. Love them.. hugssssssss V

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