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Blogs > rm_rakehell500 > Rakehell for the Heck of It

A Little Romance --- Caution, May Have Unexpected Side Effects  

rm_rakehell500 70M
843 posts
9/26/2014 2:12 pm

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10/18/2014 7:16 pm
A Little Romance --- Caution, May Have Unexpected Side Effects








Romance and sex are not the same thing, but they can be if you do it right.

Bring her a flower, her favorite wine or candy, a knick knack she collects, for no damn reason but to see her face.

Sail in and sweep her off to her favorite restaurant.

Let her come home and find you actually doing something you have been saying you would do for months.

Rub her feet without being asked.

Run her a<b> bubble bath </font></b>with candles.

Notice when she does things with her hair, wears new clothes, buys a new perfume, or changes her nails.

Wash her back in the shower or tub without seducing her unless she starts it.

Compliment something other than her hair, tits, ass, or figure.

Tell her something you love about her you haven't told her before.

Let her fall asleep in your arms whether you had sex with her or not and even if your hard on is drilling a hole in her hip.

Put an air mattress in the sunroom and make love during a thunderstorm

Take the off her hands one day on the weekend.

Turn off the television (extra bonus points if it is during sports) and talk to her.

Tell her how lucky you are to have her.

Of course she may A. Suspect you are cheating. B. Think she is dying and you haven't told her yet. C. Faint in surprise. Or D. Check if you have a fever or are drunk or on drugs. But once she has eliminated all those she will appreciate it and romance will almost always mean sex as well.



Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
9/27/2014 4:39 pm
    Quoting cinnamonx:
    Great list. Sadly been missing in my life for too long time! I have gifts from male friends but not a lover.... ever hopeful!
It's just one right guy away, and if you have male friends who treat you this way then you know what to look for.

It may not always be as romantic as flowers, candy, and champagne, sometimes it's as simple as having your car detailed, keeping your oil changed, checking the air pressure in your tires is you are driving somewhere, or topping off your gas tank.

It's more about thinking about you than what you do.


Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
9/27/2014 4:35 pm
    Quoting sweet_VM:
    If you haven't done this in a very long time .. I would guess all the above she would be thinking.. Always keep the Romance alive. Very good list there .. hugssssssssssssss V
I start out this way so they aren't caught off guard, but I admit a sudden change might make a lot of women a bit suspicious.

I tried to stick with the little easy things to do. It doesn't always take the grand gesture. Not that the grand gesture isn't appreciated.

I had to miss my first wife's birthday while she was pregnant with our son, I was out of the country and pretty much incommunicado as well, so I arranged for flowers and or candy to be sent to her everyday for a week before her birthday and on her birthday that, balloons, and a diamond bracelet (I had money then) and after that a card everyday for a week telling her how I felt.

Of course she did ask if I could manage to miss her next birthday too...


Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
9/27/2014 4:27 pm
    Quoting  :
You hear so many horror stories on here that it makes me feel better about myself and my sex to know there as still some of us who appreciate the women in our lives.

Relationships never get easy so this is an ongoing thing, but doing it becomes a habit.

When my first wife and I separated finally and after the death of my second and third wives (yes, two is a bit careless) what I missed as much as anything was not having anyone to think of like that. I would catch myself looking at some little knick knack or such they would like and then go through the whole feeling of loss again.

Truth is giving to them and making them happy was about equally for myself because I so enjoyed the look in their eyes when I got it right.


Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
9/27/2014 4:22 pm
    Quoting  :
Thank you.

It isn't hard to treat women this way. It takes little to no money for most of it, and a huge part of it is just thinking about her more than you. Some women have to get used to it and it can be overwhelming to them if they never had it before, but a lot of our faults get overlooked because we treated them that way.

But I should have added it has to be genuine. You can't do it just to get something. You have to do it to make her happy and keep her aware of what she means to you.

I know it can be difficult for men to express ourselves, and words are much easier for me than most people even when they have to be sincere, but my Dad did a million things like this for my Mom, and he was very quiet. He brought her home candy, bought her things he saw he liked for her, came home and took us to dinner even though he had worked all day, did his own clothes because they were heavy, mopped the floors and did the vaccum for her --- it doesn't have to be sweeping romance to have the same effect.


Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
9/27/2014 4:14 pm

 Always happy to know someone found a great match. It really isn't all that hard to treat a woman right, and women pay back in all sorts of ways sexual and not.

Isn't it nice to find a Prince Charming with no frog genes?


Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
9/27/2014 4:11 pm
    Quoting  :
It's all easy things to do. You really don't have to work that hard at it if you do it consistently.


Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


nd2hvfun 65F  
10021 posts
9/26/2014 7:16 pm
    Quoting  :
he's a keeper
je ne regrette rien


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/26/2014 3:42 pm

 If you haven't done this in a very long time .. I would guess all the above she would be thinking.. Always keep the Romance alive. Very good list there .. hugssssssssssssss V
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cinnamonx 54F
458 posts
9/26/2014 3:01 pm

 Great list. Sadly been missing in my life for too long time! I have gifts from male friends but not a lover.... ever hopeful!


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