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Blogs > sluttynympho7 > Sometimes some Nasty thoughts

When to tell all secrets  

sluttynympho7 51F
41 posts
2/1/2014 2:54 pm
When to tell all secrets

I have so many thoughts going through my head that I am not sure what I want to write. I just wrote ride instead of write so I guess right now I am thinking of riding and our biker fun. On the motorcycle or just with our motorcycle friends I can be myself and have some fun. I admit I am still nervous because I worry about guys coming up that are uninvited. Hubby doesn't like the idea of another guy touching me, but sometimes I think about it. It is the only thing in the sex discussions that I cannot bring myself to be honest about. Last night my ex-hubby was flirting and touching me(arms, back, etc.) in any way he thought he could get away with. He knows that I will always be at ease if he touches me, but I don't think he realizes that it is from the years we were together. I have no intentions of taking him back or being with him in any way, shape, or form. My current hubby knows I would like to try dp but I don't feel I could tell him that I don't want to use toys I want the real thing. Another woman fantasy is something we share and discuss and although he does not admit he wants to be involved with the other woman during our female fun, I know he does. How do I get past the final barrier we have and truly share every fantasy I have and get him to do the same?

RobK2006 56M
5998 posts
2/2/2014 8:00 am

 Perhaps you could lead up to idea of having dp for real by bringing it up in conversation, just mention the idea without specifically saying you want to try it yourself. Say something like, "It's amazing that other couples will have threesomes and really get into and dp the woman and they are fine about it." See how he reacts to that?


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